Agree, we often make the same mistakes in life, in other words, we step on the same rake. The amazing thing is that each person does it in their own way. Astrologers say that a person makes all the mistakes and mistakes as dictated by his Zodiac Sign. Is it true? Let's test this hypothesis in a comic horoscope!
Aries
Aries will step on a rake, realize that he made a mistake and break them in a fit of rage. However, in the process, he will receive another 10 on the head with them.
Taurus
Taurus is a stubborn nature. According to the comic horoscope, this Zodiac Sign is simply a champion in rake walking. The true Taurus will step on the rake until they break. Although, when they break, Taurus can buy another one and start all over again.
Twins
The twins simply need to try all the rakes, only after that they will understand what they want and in which direction they need to move. Experience for Gemini comes not with years, but with the number of rakes in their lives.
Cancer
According to the comic horoscope according to the Sign of the Zodiac, Cancer cannot do without a rake. He will constantly step on them, but this is what will give him strength. Only by making a mistake, Cancer will understand what he really needs from life.
a lion
Leo is optimistic about stepping on the same rake a couple more times. The representative of this Sign does not just step on a rake, he cheerfully jumps on them, while waving his hands to his friends and calling them to join.
Virgo
Virgo steps on the rake carefully, trying to calculate the force of impact and the degree of pain caused. Virgo believes that it is possible to step on the same rake if you correctly predict and plan everything.
Scales
Libra will long and stubbornly avoid meeting with a rake. They will begin to doubt, think for a long time and calculate the moves, but when they make a decision, they will definitely step on the biggest and sharpest rake.
Scorpion
Scorpio steps on a rake and is not afraid of it. And all because the representative of this Zodiac Sign simply does not notice anything! And if he notices, then he won’t even think about the fact that this still happened.
Sagittarius
Sagittarius does not teach life at all. If Sagittarius steps on a rake and realizes that he has made a big mistake, then this will not stop him from reaching his goal. After a while, he will decide to step on the same rake again.
Capricorn
Capricorn, stepping on a rake, behaves very strangely: he analyzes, thinks and estimates for a long time. But in the end he will understand that it is not worth his thoughts and will forget his oversight, which in the end will again push him to the mistake.
Aquarius
According to the comic horoscope, Aquarius is very good at gardening tools. He will step on the most attractive and original, in his opinion, rake and will be proud that no one else but him has thought of doing this.
Fish
If Pisces steps on a rake at least once, then they will remember and regret it all their lives. Until a very old age, Pisces will keep already rusty, but still quite usable rakes in their closet and sigh heavily, looking at them.
We hope this humorous zodiac sign horoscope made you smile! We wish you good luck and don't forget to press and
13.03.2014 12:40
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Smart people see their mistakes as a good opportunity to learn something. In his article, Dr. Travis Bradberry shares ten mistakes that should not be repeated twice. That is, these are the very cases when the lesson must be learned the first time.
Everyone makes mistakes - this is natural, but not always useful. Some people step on the same rake over and over again, lag behind the rest and do not understand what is wrong with them.
"Mistakes are always forgivable if you have the courage to accept them", –
Bruce Lee.
When a person makes a mistake, he can hardly admit it, because it is so unpleasant and uncomfortable. However, in this way we only drive ourselves into a dead end, counteracting our nature. According to psychologists, full recognition and acceptance of one's mistakes is the only way to avoid repeating them.
Yet, for some reason, many of us still struggle to confront ourselves.
Psychologists at the University of Michigan have discovered that there are two types of thinking about failure: the first is fixed thinking (“Better give it all up, it still won’t work”). The second is a growth mindset (“Something’s wrong here! Let’s see where I could be wrong so that this doesn’t happen again in the future”).
“When we notice mistakes, we spend a lot of time and effort to fix them. Jason Moser says and as a result, errors accrue to us.”
People with a growth mindset become better and more successful by admitting their mistakes. Conversely, fixed-minded individuals do everything to ignore their failures, and then, without even understanding why, they always stop at obstacles.
Smart people are not immune to mistakes, but they are willing to learn from them. In other words, they find the cause of their own miscalculations and do not allow a similar situation to be repeated twice.
“If you repeat a mistake, it is no longer a mistake, but your decision.”
Paulo Coelho.
Smart people learn from their mistakes and don't repeat them twice.
1. Believe in things that are too good to be true.
We are fascinated by charismatic and self-confident individuals. They all talk about their glorious deeds, about how cool they are, but, in fact, they offer a “pig in a poke”. But even smart people cannot distinguish them from truly successful advisers until one day they themselves fall into a trap.
Smart people ask serious questions before making a decision, because they understand that no one is as good as they try to look. Even they themselves!
2. Expect better results by doing the same thing.
Albert Einstein said it was crazy to do the same thing and expect a different result. But still, there are many people among us who seem to think that 2+2=5.
Smart people need only once experience disappointment due to unfulfilled expectations. In other words: don't expect change if you stick to one path. The result will be the same. To get something new, you need to step over yourself and change your approach, even if it is unpleasant for you.
3. Wait for lightning-fast results.
Smart people know that there is no quick result, one way or another, hard work precedes victory.
No wonder there is a chain "motivation → action → result". Smart people know how to use motivation at every step of the complex process that leads to success.
4. Spending money recklessly.
You cannot be financially free while you are dependent on money. Attachment to them forces you to make a choice between what you want and what you can afford.
The solution is simple: carefully consider the details of the family budget before you get into debt and live "pay to pay." If you understand where the money you earn goes, you will have no problem prioritizing your purchases. You can, for example, refuse a second latte in the morning, if you calculate how much money accumulates in a year.
When you have a clear budget, you will not miss the chance to invest your money in the right direction. Budget is the basis of order, order is the basis of quality work.
5. Lose understanding of the big picture.
It is easy to bury yourself in papers, work tirelessly and lose the big picture of what is happening. Smart people learn to keep everything under steadfast control: set daily goals, weeding out false motives.
Do not act recklessly with small tasks, on the contrary, structure them so coherently that you can gradually reach your goal.
6. Don't do "homework".
At some point, you might feel like it's okay to copy a friend's biology homework or show up unprepared for an important meeting. Smart people understand that sometimes they get lucky and this tactic works, but it does not give them a chance to reach their full potential. And only when they make every effort to complete a certain task do they achieve results.
7. Hiding behind a mask.
Sometimes it's tempting to make a special impression on others, but in fact - no one likes hypocrites. It's a bad habit to conform to other people's standards. Smart people know they lose their true self by trying to give someone the wrong impression.
Many simply do not understand that others feel their deceit. They do not admit that they are gradually losing relationships with loved ones, jobs and opportunities they love just because they are trying to be something they are not.
Be yourself when you interact with other people, because happiness and success require sincerity.
8. Trying to please everyone.
You can't be good to everyone, and yet almost everyone makes this mistake. To become more successful and effective, you need to develop confidence in your beliefs and do in time what it is you, and not someone else, sees fit.
9. Play the victim.
Smart people quickly realize that this is a form of manipulation, and its benefits will wear off once others realize it's just a ruse. There is one more inconspicuous, at first glance, detail: portraying the victim, you stop believing in your strength and begin to underestimate yourself.
10. Trying to change someone.
People change only if they are willing and ready to change. Despite this, many people really want to retrain someone, to prove their authority. Some even look for people with "breakdowns" to "repair" them! But a smart person does not need to poke his nose into his mistakes, he himself sees them and knows that he is able to change!
On the contrary, start with yourself, build your life, and then inspire those around you and try to avoid those who drag you down.
By nature, intelligent people are always successful because they never stop learning new things. They learn from their experience and their mistakes, and if they change, then only for the better.
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This fabulous story could have taken place in a small village called Stary Saltov. Or it might not have happened at all ... Oh, and beautiful places there: a large forest, and a clean river, and mountains, and grief. Ask: "Why sorrow?" And because where people are, there is grief. They sometimes invent it for themselves, and when five or ten years have passed, they say that it was not grief at all. And there was no need to worry, it turns out. And you want to worry.
It's time to start our story. Listen…
A shaggy gray-haired sorcerer rode on an old wagon filled with hay past the village of Stary Saltov. Carried various magical things. There was nowhere to hurry. The sun has worn out the sorcerer. He dozed off and did not even notice how the magic rake from the cart fell right onto the country road overgrown with grass. A day the rake lies, the second day they lie. And on the third day, grandmother Praskovya was returning home, to Stary Saltov, from a neighboring farm (people call her Baba Pasha) and sees - a good rake is lying. My grandmother thought: "I'll take them to my home, and there you look - and the owner will be found." So the magic rake got into the yard to the grandmother.
Meanwhile, in the big city, Bogdanchik was preparing to visit Grandma Pasha's granddaughters. Such a smart little boy, with kind brown eyes that seemed to look into the very soul of people. His mother tells him: “I will take you to my grandmother in Stary Saltov for the summer. Just be careful there: don’t go far into the forest, don’t swim in the river for a long time, but look under your feet - don’t step on a rake. Bogdanchik nods his head, reassures his mother: “I’m not small anymore.” And he thinks about fishing, rejoices.
Baba Pasha baked pies - the granddaughter meets. Bogdanchik saw his grandmother - he ran to her joyful and on a magic rake and stepped right on the teeth. No, he did not hurt his leg, but simply a rake hit him painfully on the head with a handle. And by the very, most magical accident, Bogdanchik became unlucky. Yes, yes, yes - unlucky - everywhere and always.
Just imagine this picture: Bogdan went with his friend Kolya to the forest. He, one after another, throws mushrooms into the bag and rejoices: “Here is a mushroom, and here is another one, and this one ...” And Bogdanchik either sees a hedgehog or a bunny. He doesn't get mushrooms. The forest is beautiful, cool, moss lies on old trees. So Kolya asks him: “Why are you so joyful? After all, I didn’t find mushrooms. ”
Bogdanchik answers: “I don’t need mushrooms at all. Look - the fox ran. Her muzzle is pointed, and at the tip of her tail the fur is white. And such a little chanterelle turns out to be ... ”Bogdanchik did not upset his friend by the fact that he also wants to find a mushroom, but he can’t.
At this very moment, this is what happened to the magic rake: the outermost prong leaned towards the neighboring prong, and that towards the outermost. And these two prongs became like a cross. This nuisance has crossed itself out. And the old sorcerer's heart sank painfully. He turned on his magic monitor and saw a joyful Bogdanchik on it. And the sorcerer says: “Wow ... The boy, it turns out, coped with his trouble. Let's see how he wins the second one."
On the second day, early in the morning, Kolya runs after Bogdanchik - he calls for fishing. The morning is so clean, bright ... Bogdanchik kissed his grandmother, grabbed a fishing rod and ran to the river. And over the Donets River, the air flows light, transparent ... Friends are in a good mood. But only further this is what happened: Kolya catches fish after fish, and at Bogdanchik the fish ate the worm, then it fell off the hook, and then it stopped pecking at all. So Kolya asks him: “Why are you so joyful? You didn't catch a fish, after all."
Bogdanchik answers: “I don’t need fish at all. Let yourself swim. And I'll go for a swim. And he ran to the creek to swim. Bogdanchik splashes, laughs, rejoices in life. The water in the Donets is pleasant, the sun is shining ...
At that very moment, the next two even teeth on the rake leaned towards each other. This means that they crossed out Bogdanchik's trouble. And the old sorcerer's heart sank painfully. And he said: “Wow ... The boy, it turns out, coped with his second trouble. The third one will be very difficult. He certainly will not cope with such a disaster. ”
And on the third day Sonechka arrived in Stary Saltov. The girl is so bright, cheerful and very lively. They became friends with Bogdanchik last summer. Sonya met Kolya with Bogdanchik and said: “And today is my birthday. Turned eight years old. Will you come to dinner with me? Come ... My grandmother will bake a cake - delicious, homemade. And there will be pancakes with sour cream, and cold compote from wild berries. And I also learned to dance one funny dance. And I will teach you." Friends were delighted, they agreed. And Sonya ran to help her grandmother.
The boys prepared gifts. Kolya bought a big doll. And Bogdan himself painted a picture of Sonechka from the bottom of his heart. And in that picture the sea is calm and the ship. And on the ship, the guns are different and the locators are powerful.
I really liked the Sonya doll. She kisses her, hugs her like her own; like she never had dolls. And he says to Bogdanchik: “Who depicts the sea like that? Not right. And your boat is funny. Some kind of frivolous one."
Bogdanchik answers: “I don’t need a serious boat. Am I going to fight or something? And he drew cheerful eyes and a wide smile on the stern of the ship. May the ship be good.
Sonya says: “It’s not like that anyway! I don't quite like it."
Kolya also repeats after Sonya: “And I don’t like it ...”
And Bogdanchik didn't even seem offended at all. He drank half a glass of compote, shook hands with Kolya. He said: "Goodbye" to Sonya's grandmother. And Sonechka herself smiled kindly. And he went to play football with other guys.
At that very moment, on the magic rake, the third pair of even teeth leaned towards each other. This means that Bogdanchik coped with the third trouble as well. And the old sorcerer's heart sank painfully. And the sorcerer said: “Now hold on Bogdan! You pissed me off! I’ll arrange this for you now ... After all, there are still two intact teeth left on the rake. And they are my strongest. And no matter what trouble you, my friend, can handle, they will never bend!
And at that very time, Baba Pasha went to the barn on business. I saw a rake and thought: “The owner of these rakes was never found. And who bent the teeth on them so hard? And why are these two teeth sticking out? Someone else will get hurt. I don't like all of this." Grandma Pasha took a hammer in the barn and bent the remaining teeth at an angle to each other. She just wanted to.
And the sorcerer screamed from severe pain, but grabbed his heart. And then he says: “So my rake lost its magical power forever. I’m going to lie down in a pine forest, I’m completely sick of something. ”
And after a while, when Grandma Praskovya was weeding a bed in the garden, the boys ran past her. One boy stopped and said: “And your Bogdan has already scored four goals! He's playing well!" The grandmother remained silent. She only smiled after the fleeing children and thought: “How pretty they are all.”
We all defile on this garden tool, but each sign with a rake has its own relationship ...
Aries
Aries steps on a rake every time unexpectedly for himself. Well, the lawn was clean, for sure! And suddenly - khryas! This angers Aries so much that he gives the rake three kicks, then picks it up, scrutinizes it, and destroys it violently to avoid re-contact. In this process, there are three more rakes. With the same consequences.
Taurus
Taurus steps on the rake carefully, having previously studied the trajectory of the handle and made a supply of bandages. Having received on the forehead, he states with satisfaction: everything is exactly as he expected. He repeats the experiment one hundred and three times, fixes the stability of the result and notes with satisfaction that the rake did break. Looking for the next.
Twins
Twins don't walk on rakes. They dance on them, and so gracefully and professionally that, at first, those around them have a desire to close their eyes, because now ... but no, with elegant movements, the Twins move from one rake to another, managing to remain unharmed. Talent.
Cancer goes to the rake with an open visor and in full confidence that he will give them a powerful rebuff. Raking on the forehead, Cancer takes the fight and hits the rake in response until they are left as miserable dust. Having defeated one rake, Cancer is inspired and begins to actively look for the next one to consolidate the skill of defeating the rake. Sometimes rakes get scared and hide. But rarely.
The lion jumps merrily on a rake, inviting everyone to join in the exciting fun. If Leo sees how friends and acquaintances get hit on the forehead, he is sincerely surprised what prevented them from jumping higher with feline grace? A rake that accidentally hits Leo usually falls on Aries or Taurus. Someone has to break them, after all.
Virgo
Virgo approaches the rake from the side and examines them carefully. He touches his foot, sits down next to the notebook and begins to calculate the flight path of the pen. Then he throws some Aquarius on the rake, what will happen to him, and checks the calculations. After making sure that everything is correct, he leaves with a light heart to tell everyone how stupid your rake is. And what idiots all those who step on them.
Scales
Libra long and thoughtfully study the manuscript "how to avoid meeting with a rake", buy night vision devices, binoculars and a rifle with a telescopic sight. Stepping slowly across the lawn, Libra carefully examines the route centimeter by centimeter, and two steps from the finish line, they step on the heftiest rake that lay in plain sight and looked, well, absolutely not like a rake. More like a hoe. Or forks. In the manuscript about this, in general, it was not.
Scorpion
Scorpio steps on a rake consciously. He is convinced that until you step on a rake, you will not have any life experience, and you need to learn from your mistakes. Hryas. Hryas. Hryas. Cone. Cone. Cone. Okay, we need to get a helmet, hard hat, painkillers and wine, note. The idea to get around the rake of Scorpio will never come, but traumatization due to high-quality training will be minimal.
Sagittarius
Sagittarius steps on a rake doomedly, because everyone steps on a rake. And so, this is how the world works. Having passed through the forest of pens flying at the head, having pierced the legs with teeth, Sagittarius will sit down in a cozy bar and drag out the Tale of Walking on the Rake. Summary: Sagittarius walked and left, albeit without one eye, and you still have to go and go.
Capricorn
Having received a rake between the eyes, Capricorn becomes numb. What was it? No, he heard about the rake, and that some individuals… But like this, without declaring war? Can not be. Therefore, Capricorn will quietly crawl aside, come up with a plausible explanation for the fact that he has a bump and a hematoma on his forehead, but he will never admit that it was THEY.
Aquarius
Aquarius will see the rake from afar and pretty quickly come to the conclusion that stepping on the rake is indispensable. He will choose the most elegant way to do this, consider different rake formations and step on them so masterfully that Virgo will gently rub her hands: that's who you need to train on.
Fish
The fish stepped on the rake a long time ago. Don't ask. A long time ago. Yes, everything has already healed, but mental trauma! Therefore, Pisces will not go anywhere. There are robberies. Everywhere. No, do not persuade, go yourself and bring everything you need. Zahar, Zahaaaaar!
There is nothing to lose, so you can ask. Honest answers will open your eyes to many things and relationships in general. It's time to stop stomping on the same rake and start a new relationship, without distortions and critical mistakes.
The former are not just people who have remained in the past, but those who gave us invaluable experience. With the right attitude towards him, you can build stronger relationships, though not with this person, but with another, but these are trifles. Before you burn any bridges, ask your ex-partner to answer a few honest questions. It will benefit both of you, so the game is worth the candle and the time spent.
Did you love (love) me?
A trite question from the category of vanilla, can help you avoid toxic relationships in the future. If your ex-partner answers (we hope that he or she will not come to this, of course) that nothing in the whole relationship has stirred up the fire of love in his heart, then things are bad. It is sad, of course, to listen to such criticism, but then you will understand how a person who loves only himself in a relationship can behave.
Why did you decide (decided) to leave?
Even if you were the initiator of the break, the ex-partner agreed, which means he was ready for this crucial step. So ask why. This question will help you understand what was really hidden behind your serene behavior and to what point of no return your relationship has reached.
What did (did) I do wrong?
If you broke up as friends, or at least peacefully, without sacrifice, then ask your ex-lover what exactly irritated him or her in the relationship, maybe there was something wrong with you? Thanks to this feedback, you will be able to work on the mistakes and build a happier relationship in the future.
Do you think our love could be saved?
This is a question that should be asked if you've been dumped. There is a high probability that your unbearable behavior in certain situations was the cause of the collapse. Knowing where the breakdown occurred, it is easier to prevent it in the future.
Did you cheat (cheat) on me?
Yes, an unpleasant question, and even a purely personal one. Digging through dirty laundry is a so-so undertaking, but sometimes it is useful to turn it around. So, if the answer is yes (although it is difficult to call it positive), you will understand exactly when you ignored your friends, relatives, intuition and other signals. By the way, do not forget to ask your "ex" what was the reason that he still turned left.
Do you remember me?
There is no need to harbor empty hopes, even if a person remembers you after the end of the relationship, this does not mean anything. It's not a fact that he loves you and wants to return, maybe you are just a wonderful person who deserves to never be forgotten.
Did you like my parents?
We all want to meet a person who will love not only our soul torn to shreds, but also our loved ones. What's there, it is not necessary to love them, but it is desirable to respect them. Mutual understanding in the family is based on understanding with all members of this family. So if your former passion frankly admitted that all this time she quietly hated your relatives, do not worry. It’s better to think about how this can be fixed so that they don’t run away from you and your relatives at breakneck speed.
What does your new partner think of me?
The purpose of the question is to satisfy your curiosity. Let's not lie, we are all interested in someone else's opinion, even though we are trying to resist it. This question will help you understand if your love story was cited as an example, as well as understand in what way you were remembered. Just don't compare yourself, even if the answer is disappointing. You are a different, unique individual.
Have you planned (planned) a wedding with me?
Thanks to this question, you will find out whether people consider you a person created for a serious relationship, whether they want to connect their lives with you, build a family and have children. This is an important step and not everyone, even looking at their current partner, is ready to cross this line. So if the answer is "yes" - you make a good impression, but if "no", then consider your breakup happiness. Otherwise, they would be wasting time on a person who is not ready to share the best moments of his life with you.
In the love story of any couple, there are moments when the relationship begins to ominously burst at the seams. People react differently to such a thing - some run away, others glue everything with adhesive tape, others recklessly tear the broken ones. Former relationships should be taken as an experience, and life lessons should be learned from this experience to the maximum. Do not be sad if your boat of love went like a stone to the bottom, escape from a sinking ship, I help each other find a rescue boat. We wish you a great mood, good luck in loveand don't forget to press the buttons and
