You are meeting a guy or girl for the first time, and you are starting to get nervous that you will suddenly have to... kiss on the first date, but you don’t know how. IN first kiss There is nothing complicated, the main thing is to remember the simple rules.
Breathing while kissing. It must be fresh. The person himself is unlikely to ever smell his own breath and it seems to him that everything is fine, but in reality this is not the case. If you don’t brush your teeth in the morning and don’t brush your teeth at all, it’s unlikely that after the first kiss your partner will want to kiss you later. Don't forget to brush your teeth in the mornings and evenings, and if possible, even brushing your teeth without toothpaste after meals will relieve you of bad breath. Also, when brushing your teeth, do not forget to brush your tongue with a toothbrush, because a large number of bacteria accumulate on the tongue, which creates an unpleasant odor from your mouth. Before you have your first kiss, it is advisable to chew mint gum for a few minutes, it will definitely give your kiss fresh breath, and you will not have to think about whether your breath smells bad.
Drooling when kissing. To reduce saliva before the first kiss, you can drink a little cold water, but in general, saliva does not interfere with the kissing process itself; in principle, it is not noticeable. In all my time, and I have already had quite a lot of kisses, I never remember a problem with saliva. So you don't have to worry about this.
Facial position when kissing. Everything is simple here, your head is slightly on the side, your noses will not interfere with you in this position.
Caresses when kissing. For the first, unforgettable kiss, do not forget about caresses with your hand. You don’t have to stand like a soldier at your post, don’t be afraid to put your partner down or touch your face (head) with your hand. Run your hand through his (her) hair, you can leave your hand there and gently finger his (her) hair.
Kissing sounds. Sounds, i.e. If you have smacks, then this is completely normal, you are real people, not mannequins.
Opening the mouth when kissing. This is probably an important moment when the partner for the first time, during the first kiss, opens his mouth so that he wants to swallow an orange. You don't have to open your mouth very wide. If you don’t know how to open your mouth correctly for the first kiss, then open it a little slightly, and then everything will go by itself.
Teeth when kissing. This also relates to the previous point; the wider your mouth is open, the more chances you have to hit your partner with your teeth, and believe me, this is unpleasant.
Tongue when kissing. In addition to touching lips, don't be afraid to kiss with tongue. This will give you new and unforgettable sensations. When kissing, you don’t need to go into all the places in your mouth with your tongue, as if you were on an excursion; just gently touch his tongue with your tongue, and then your feelings themselves will tell you how to do it better.
Kiss without a partner. Here you can try it for yourself. Yes, on yourself, you heard right. If you do this on tomatoes, as shown in some films, then you will not feel what your partner is feeling. It's very simple, bring your hand to your mouth and try to kiss it between your palm and elbow (or other convenient place), as you would like to kiss your partner. This is how you can feel everything, how wide you can open your mouth, whatever you touch with your teeth, how to work your tongue correctly, what your partner will approximately feel, etc.
Move on to another kiss when you feel like your partner is tired of the way you kiss. If you notice a bored expression on your girlfriend's face, this will serve as a signal for you to move on to the next kiss. For example, you can move from a French kiss to a neck kiss. In addition, you can move on to a new kiss when your partner, on the contrary, begins to enjoy your kiss. If at this time you change tactics, she will want to return to the previous kiss and at the subconscious level she will want both you and the continuation of the interrupted wonderful kiss.
What is a combination kiss?
If lovers are not satisfied with one kiss, they mix several different ones. The main thing here is ingenuity and surprise. A kiss can begin as a simple kiss, which at its height can turn into sucking lips, then give way to a vacuum kiss, and end, after going through several stages, in the same way as it began - with a regular kiss on the lips. The options here are endless. Your girlfriend will never get tired of variety, especially if you put at least a little feeling into your kisses. The main difficulty will be to remember the entire sequence of actions when she asks: “Now let's repeat it!”
I want to kiss my girlfriend for the first time. How to put her in the right mood?
The mood is what you both feel. There are no magic words with the help of which it would be created on its own. The best thing you can do is to arrange everything so that your date is extremely romantic. This includes both talking and being close together for some time, sitting next to each other, or taking a walk, or doing homework together. Look into her eyes until you feel that you are starting to dissolve in them. Let the situation unfold so much that you feel a magnetic attraction to it that you cannot overcome. If you both feel the same way, you will be fine. If there was only one chance to kiss a girl and your future depended on that kiss?
True love or friendship is much stronger than one single kiss. But in any case, your first kiss should be gentle. This is a reconnaissance kiss during which you need to monitor her reaction. If you think she doesn't like it, stop. If she smiles contentedly, continue kissing her. But just don't French kiss her on the first date, unless, of course, she wants it herself. If you really want to impress her, re-read the previous sentence, underline it, memorize it and write it down on a piece of paper, which you must take with you on the first date with your chosen one.
Is there any way to find out what kind of kisses a girl likes without asking her directly?
You can usually tell by the way she kisses you. Therefore, follow this and kiss her the way she kissed you, still trying to add something from yourself. Also, remember that girls usually don't like it when guys move on to tongue kissing too quickly or don't use other kisses at all.
How can a guy let a girl know that he wants to kiss her?
Approach her, look into her eyes for a long time. Most importantly, ask about how she spent her day, what she thinks about this or that matter; Listen to her carefully, but also take part in the conversation yourself. When you get close enough to her, find an excuse to adjust something on her clothing, brush off a speck of dust, or run your hand through her hair. If she turns pale and recoils, you were too hasty. If everything goes well, you will feel as if an electric current is running through your body and an unknown force is attracting you to each other. If she doesn't take the hint, you can tell her something like, “I kept trying to let you know that I wanted to kiss you, but you didn't seem to notice!”
When should you kiss on a date?
The most convenient time for a kiss is when breaking up, because it is the most natural. However, some girls complain that their partners kiss them, despite the fact that during the date there was no intimacy or attraction between them.
Therefore, if you did not feel anything like that, it is better to refuse a kiss goodbye.
If you do kiss, it may turn out that this kiss will open a series of new kisses. Therefore, it is worth ending your dates early - so that you can start kissing. In addition, kissing at the beginning of a date is very popular. These welcome kisses will create a pleasant romantic atmosphere for the whole evening. I highly recommend the following: before breaking up, kiss your girlfriend twice as long as usual. After such a kiss, you will remain in her heart and thoughts until the next date.
What is a “wet” kiss?
This is a kiss during which so much saliva is released that your partner's whole face can be wet, and your lips will glide over it as easily as a swan on the waters of a lake. Sometimes it feels good, especially when you're already so excited that you don't notice the unpleasant wetness. But much more often the partner doesn’t like it.
How can this be prevented?
Swallow your own saliva. Or take a break to get something to drink. You can prepare a bottle of cold water for yourself and your girlfriend in advance. This will give you the opportunity to get rid of excess saliva in your mouth. You can try kissing on a full stomach, when salivation decreases. Conversely, kissing before your usual mealtime helps produce more saliva. Alas, the stomach cannot always recognize the difference between your friend and your favorite dish.
How “wet” can a kiss be?
Although no kiss is complete without drooling, the saliva should not be so copious that your partner has to use a towel. However, the more erotic the kisses become, the “wetter” they become. Fortunately, when people become aroused, their tolerance for other people's saliva increases accordingly. As you become more and more excited, your hands begin to sweat, your pulse quickens and your kisses become more and more “wet.”
Do people who don't like wet kisses feel differently?
In general, yes. Disgusting people are usually more reserved and cannot relax quickly. They are disgusted by the slightest sensation of their partner’s saliva; they can hardly stand the sensation of even their own saliva. If your partner complains about too wet kisses, this may mean that she has a thing about it. But at the same time, this may be a signal that you are salivating too much. You can easily check this by consulting your dentist when you come for your next checkup.
Would it be rude if I wiped my mouth after kissing?
In general, no. It won't look any more rude than if you wiped your mouth after finishing a meal together. However, it is worth keeping in mind that such a gesture may be interpreted by your partner as a sign that you did not like the feeling of his saliva. Therefore, there is no need to advertise this.
What's the best way to let my girlfriend know that her kisses are too wet?
Tell her about this when you don't kiss. You shouldn't do this while kissing because it can cause a long discussion. Offer to swallow saliva. Show her some dry kisses you've seen in movies or on TV. Make her happy with a promise to buy her a bib if she doesn’t try to “dry” the kisses.
When do “wet” kisses go off without a hitch?
To begin with, most people choose short, “dry” kisses, followed by long, but also “dry” kisses. It usually takes some time for the partners to become so excited that they can move on to “wet” kisses. This time is approximately ten minutes, during which relaxation occurs. Naturally, no one will like it if after a kiss he is covered from head to toe with saliva, so be careful with “wet” kisses. They are certainly highly erotic, but your partner may be squeamish. In general, try to swallow your saliva and watch your partner. If suddenly she begins to choke like a drowning person, immediately wipe her off and call for help.
How can I tactfully hint to my partner so that she doesn’t shower me with her saliva?
Tell her that you've heard about an interesting kissing game that you want to try. It's called "Show Me Your Kind of Kisses." You tell your partner to kiss you for three minutes. Kiss her on the neck if you like neck kisses. Kiss her with dry lips - do whatever you like. Then switch roles. Let her show you what she would like. In this game you both will learn how to kiss each other. If none of the above helps, play another game with your partner called "Candor." Tell her what you like and then what you don't like about her kisses.
Is it possible to determine for myself that my kisses are too “wet”?
You can determine this by swallowing your own saliva during a kiss. If this saves the situation, know that it was your kissing that caused the excess moisture. If the kiss does not become drier, ask your partner to swallow saliva. Appeal to her sense of justice: “You must learn to regulate your salivation.”
Before the first kiss
Usually, failures during the first kiss happen due to the fact that people constantly think about it, are afraid of leaving an unpleasant impression or appearing incompetent, or, on the contrary, they express themselves too actively, trying to show themselves as capable and experienced. Therefore, you should not get hung up on it.
While kissing, try to relax and enjoy it. Forget about memorized movements, rely only on your sensations and feelings.
However, it is worth remembering that your partner also wants to be kissed. At the same time, it is very important that your jaws move synchronously, try to get into the rhythm of your loved one’s movements, do not immediately seize the initiative, a little later you will be able to set the rhythm yourself.
When kissing, do not be afraid to touch your partner; you can stroke his hair, face, shoulders, etc.
All your actions should be gentle and relaxed.
Try not to rush and not to delay the first kiss too much; it is better if it is short-lived.
Not everyone manages to enjoy a kiss for the first time. This is due to the fact that most of the attention is paid to assessing the situation, as well as one’s own actions. But as soon as you manage to get rid of these thoughts, relax and completely surrender to the process, you will understand how pleasant it is to kiss.
Kiss on the lips
There is nothing incomprehensible or difficult in the art of kissing; everyone can learn to do it correctly. First of all, you need to make sure that you are ready for the kiss. There should be no unpleasant odors coming from your mouth, as they can repel even the most passionate lover. You should also keep your teeth and tongue clean. To achieve this, in addition to toothpaste, use special fresheners and mouth rinses.
Now we can take a closer look at the kissing process itself:
After waiting for the right moment, you can start kissing. To do this, slowly begin to tilt your head towards your partner until your lips touch. At the same time, pull your lips forward slightly so that they remain relaxed. After contact, close your eyes and focus on the sensations.
Without haste, gently kiss one of your partner’s lips with your two lips, ideally it should be between your lips. At the same time, lightly compress your lips. To determine the grip strength and practice, you can squeeze your index finger with your lips. This kiss should last about 2-4 seconds.
After this, lean back about 4 centimeters, open your eyes and look at your loved one. This point needs to be given special attention, as it will help you determine whether it is worth continuing or whether it is better to stop. Monitor your partner's reaction, if it is positive, you can move on.
Start kissing one of your loved one's lips again, then move to the other and back again. At the same time, you can suck it lightly or move your tongue over it. You can also use your teeth and start lightly biting your lip, but you should be very careful here so as not to hurt your loved one. When kissing, be sure to watch your partner’s reaction and give him the opportunity to kiss you too.
French Kiss
This is a very intimate type of kiss in which one partner touches the lips, mouth and tongue of the other partner with his tongue. Usually it becomes a continuation of a kiss on the lips, but can also occur separately. If you and your lover have never kissed in this way, you don’t need to immediately put your tongue in his mouth, try to act gradually and tactfully, taking into account the situation and your partner’s reaction.
Where to begin:
So, first you need to know your partner's reaction. So start with a simple kiss, then open your mouth slightly and run the tip of your tongue over your loved one’s lips and wait until he responds. In this case, the guy can take active action himself. If he doesn’t dare, then open your lips a little wider and very slowly spread his lips with your tongue. Then move your tongue back slightly and wait for his reaction. Repeat this action until your tongues touch.
French kiss technique
Try to behave naturally, relax, discard shyness and excitement.
You can make any movements with your tongue: suck easily, move from side to side, touch slightly, etc., the main thing is that your loved one likes it. Explore, add new movements, and you can easily determine his tastes. Just remember that when kissing, all manipulations with the tongue must be performed smoothly and with moderate force, so as not to cause discomfort to your partner.
To begin with, you can run your tongue along the inside of your lips; men really like this, since one of the erogenous zones is located there.
Tongue sucking. While kissing, you can lightly suck your partner's tongue. It may be quite difficult for you to catch it right away, but soon you will learn to do it quickly. Suck the guy's tongue like a cocktail straw. At the same time, you may need to press closer to your partner so that he does not recoil in surprise. But as soon as the guy relaxes, you can start sucking his tongue with pulsating movements. Such caresses usually give the partner great pleasure.
Tongue rotation. You can make rotational movements with your tongue when kissing, this gives great pleasure to many. To do this, touch your partner's tongue with yours and begin to make clockwise rotational movements around it.
Simultaneous movements of the tongue. Usually one of the partners initiates the kiss, so at first he acts independently. But there are also situations when a couple begins to kiss using the tongue at the same time. At the same time, a kind of game occurs when the partners seem to catch up with each other with their tongues.
Pressing on the tongue. You can press on the tongue with such force that it would be pleasant for you. In this case, the partner may, as it were, resist in response, pressing on your tongue.
The force of pressure on the lips. The lips can be applied with different strengths. It is recommended to start with a soft, gentle touch, and after a little time you can add intensity. Change the pressure on your lips and the pace of the kiss: sometimes weakly, sometimes quickly, sometimes slowly. Constant change and variety are the basis of any kiss.
Duration of the kiss. The duration of a kiss can be completely different; the optimal time is from 0.5 to 5 minutes. But this figure is very individual, for some one minute is enough, while for others half an hour is not enough. The fact that the kiss was successful is indicated by slight excitement and slight shortness of breath.
What is better not to do when French kissing:
When kissing, you should not bite your tongue, since even the most gentle and light biting can give your partner unpleasant sensations.
Also, do not stick your tongue too deeply, as this can also cause discomfort.
There is no need to focus on just one language, make the process varied, alternate different types of kisses.
Don't grab your partner's lips or tongue too hard or too often.
Don't drool. Watch your salivation, if it is too strong, alternate different types of kisses.
Don't lick your partner's entire face and mouth - why be like a dog.
Whatever your experience in kissing, never be afraid to experiment, because only through trial and error will you be able to perfect your technique. Kiss your loved one as your heart tells you, and then you will remember these wonderful moments for the rest of your life.
What not to do while kissing
1) Don't try to look at your partner. Just close your eyes and enjoy the kiss. If during a kiss your partner opens his eyes slightly and notices that you are looking at him carefully, this may confuse him.
2) Don't try to talk or interject while kissing. A kiss is an absorbing process, if your partner is drowning in the kiss, he simply may not hear what you say, or, on the contrary, will move away from your lips in order to better understand what you are saying.
3) Do not try to passionately pull your partner’s hair while kissing, as you may have seen in some erotic scenes in movies. If you just want to repeat what you saw in the movies, it can be executed simply ridiculously.
4) Don't open your mouth wide. A kiss is primarily the interaction of the lips and tongue of the partners; do not try to eat your gentleman.
5) Do not try to lick your partner’s face with your tongue; the kissing zone is your partner’s lips and tongue. Everything that goes beyond this zone can already be considered preliminary caresses before the start of intimacy.
Many articles and books have been written about how to kiss correctly. This is not surprising, because a kiss is not only a manifestation of love and tenderness for each other, but also a whole art. It helps boost immunity, lift your mood and avoid stress.
During the process, about 30 facial muscles are involved, which has a beneficial effect on the condition of the skin and helps prevent the occurrence of wrinkles. It has been proven that not only knowledge of how to kiss correctly, but also the number of kisses - at least 7 per day - plays a significant role.
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Types of kisses on the lips
There are so many kissing techniques that they are studied in a separate science - philematology. She considers the process from the point of view of physiology and psychology. Based on these criteria, different types of kisses are distinguished.
It is this type of lip contact that has gained the most popularity. Its key feature is the penetration of the tongue into the partner’s mouth. This makes the process more sensual, but the most technically challenging. Before trying it out in practice, it is recommended that you familiarize yourself with how to kiss correctly:
- You need to prepare in advance. The success of a kiss largely depends on the freshness of your breath, the pleasant smell of your body and hair, and your neat appearance. Immediately before touching your lips, you should use chewing gum or a lollipop.
- It's better to start with a light kiss. Haste is not the best companion in how to kiss properly. Light touches should develop into a passionate French kiss gradually, and it is recommended to increase the pace slowly.
- Give in to emotions. Only a sincere gesture will bring real pleasure. How to kiss on the lips correctly will be largely dictated by emotions and feelings.
Perfecting the French technique can require extensive training. However, the simplest kiss with the tongue can be done by lovers without experience. The main thing is mutual attraction and sympathy, and knowledge of how to kiss correctly will come with it.
English
Surprisingly, in France the famous love gesture is called the “English kiss”. According to some historians, this name for the French method was obtained due to the celebration of Kiss Day. The custom originated in the 19th century in Great Britain and is still celebrated every year on July 6th. Two decades ago, the holiday officially received international status.
There is no difference between how to kiss on the lips - in English or in French.
Italian
Italians are famous for their passionate behavior, both in everyday life and in love. However, the Italian kiss is completely different, it is also known as the flirting kiss. The gesture is soft, gentle, romantic. How to kiss in Italian:
- Touch lips. This must be done slowly and gently. Before kissing, it is better to wet your lips or use hygienic lipstick. In this case, they will be the softest and will give the partner maximum pleasure.
- Movements should not be sudden. You should move your lips carefully. Excessive passion is not acceptable in an Italian kiss.
- You shouldn't use your tongue. In this case, the Italian kiss turns into a French one.
- It is important to reserve time. The main feature of the Italian method is duration. This is a great way to kiss passionately without tongue, if you have a few hours of free time. Such a lingering kiss can drive even the most persistent and sensible people crazy.
Without tongue
Touching lips without using the tongue is typical for couples who have just started dating or for young lovers. However, even in family relationships, a kiss of this kind can add novelty and romance, because it emanates naivety and tenderness. How to kiss without tongue:
- Preparation. Before kissing without tongue, it is important to freshen your breath. Before a date, you should not eat onions, garlic, horseradish and other foods that have a strong unpleasant odor. It is advisable to use perfume, but in moderation.
- Condition of the lips. Smooth lip skin is an essential condition. It is better to take care of its condition in advance: make a scrub, lubricate it with oil, and use other moisturizers.
- Process. A long look into the eyes can serve as a signal that a partner is not against a kiss. It is necessary to slowly approach the face of your lover or lover, touch your partner’s lips with your lips, and close your eyes. An important point in how to kiss correctly is relaxed lips.
After mastering touching with your lips, you can move on to the next stage - kissing with your tongue. This is the very French method, of which two varieties can be distinguished:
- "Dry". How to kiss in French correctly was indicated above, but the dry method has its own characteristics. This gesture does not tolerate excessive salivation; the kiss should be moderately wet. This is a more preferable option for young couples, unfamiliar lovers or conservatives.
- "Wet". In addition to the traditional French method of tongue penetration, the process is accompanied by copious amounts of saliva. Not every partner will approve of this gesture, but there are true fans of wet kisses.
Passionate
Passionate kisses can be with or without tongue. How to kiss passionately:
- Start. When approaching your partner, you need to touch his lips with yours. You should move slowly, gradually increasing the pace.
- Complication. You can suck, bite, or run the tip of your tongue along your lover’s lips.
- With tongue. If your partner opens his mouth towards you, you can carefully insert your tongue. You shouldn’t do this suddenly, you need to speed up gradually.
- Important. Answering the question of how to kiss correctly, it is worth noting that other gestures also play an important role. You need to hug your beloved, you can clasp his head with your hands, run your palm through his hair. This will allow you to feel emotions more clearly.
How to kiss correctly?
For this business, spontaneity is much more important than rules. In order for a kiss to be memorable and enjoyable, it is important:
- Choose the right person. It is this, and not the mastery of numerous techniques, that is the key to success. A kiss with a loved one is a priori successful.
- Don't be nervous. Embarrassment or worries will not allow you to relax, which means they will ruin the whole impression of the kiss. You should get rid of thoughts about how to kiss correctly in advance.
- There is no need to be afraid of making mistakes. It is impossible to make a mistake in a kiss if it comes from the heart, unlike the phrase “how to kiss correctly,” which many users mistakenly type into the search bar.
The benefits of kissing
More than one scientist has not yet developed a single algorithm for kissing. To get an idea of how to kiss on the lips, you can:
- Honing your skills on your own. Many people received their first knowledge of kissing through tomatoes. Other smooth vegetables or fruits will also work. It won't be possible to rehearse the French method, but it is quite possible to feel more confident when kissing without a tongue.
- Cinema and video. Romantic movie characters know better than anyone how to kiss properly. It is quite possible to adopt their experience by turning on a film about love.
- Training videos. Suitable material can be found upon request on the Internet. These videos not only tell you how to properly kiss lips on lips or with tongue, but also provide valuable comments.
The most important thing is practice, practice and more practice. Regular kisses with your loved one will allow you to quickly learn all the secrets.
The first kiss is a special and important moment in the life of a girl or guy. It is this that will remain in memory; it is this that cannot be repeated or changed. How to kiss for the first time if:
- You are a guy. The main task is to choose the right moment. If you try too early, you can scare the lady of your heart. However, a long delay can cause a similar effect. As soon as the girl begins to give signs, hold her gaze on her lips for a long time, look into her eyes, you can act.
- You are a girl. The female wait-and-see attitude is more beneficial for those who have no practical knowledge of kissing. You need to show the guy your readiness for the process. If he does not dare, then it is not forbidden to take the initiative into his own hands.
Most men take the first step on their own. All that is required from a girl is patience and openness. There are a number of secrets that will bring this moment closer:
- Open face. You should not cover your face with your hands, a scarf, or turn away from the guy. Such behavior will likely be seen as an attempt to distance yourself.
- Look into the eyes. Making eye contact is the first step to lip contact.
- Give an answer. During the kiss itself, you should reciprocate the guy's feelings, even if you have never kissed before.
In relation to the fair sex, it is better to act boldly and decisively. However, excessive zeal can cause resentment or aggression in the lady of the heart. You should not persuade her to kiss if she is not ready or does not want to.
How to kiss a girl correctly:
- You shouldn't do this in public. A quiet square, an uncrowded cafe or the last rows of a cinema will do. Extra eyes do not increase self-confidence.
- It's better to scout out the situation. A light touch on the cheek, neck or hair will help you understand your lover’s readiness. If she doesn't pull away, then you can act.
- Be gentle. You don’t need to turn on the passionate macho right away; a gentle kiss will do for the first time. In the process, it is better to observe how the girl reacts.
How to understand that a guy wants to kiss you?
Some timid boys hesitate to kiss a girl for a very long time. In this case, you can try to do it yourself. How to understand that a guy wants to kiss you:
- he gazes at the neck or lips for a long time;
- the guy often comes close, but retreats at the last moment;
- when talking, he bites his lips or touches them with his tongue.
In order for things to come to a kiss, you need to prove yourself on a date, namely:
- You need to prepare for a date. A neat appearance, neat clothes, and unobtrusive perfume will create a pleasant impression at first sight.
- Place. It is better to choose a location based on your own preferences. In summer it’s good to just walk through the park or sit on the open veranda. In winter you can go to the cinema or anti-cafe.
- In progress. You should not swear, talk very loudly, or smoke. You should behave politely and calmly. It is not forbidden to use a good sense of humor.
- After the date. Regardless of how the evening goes, you need to thank the girl. If the outcome is favorable, you can immediately discuss the next meeting.
Useful video
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Conclusion
- It’s quite difficult to say how to kiss with your tongue and lips correctly.
- The optimal solution would be to take any technique you like as a basis, but act according to the situation.
- It is worth remembering that a kiss is not an exam, but its main purpose is pleasure, which means there is no need to be nervous.
When romantic feelings arise between people, they want to be as close to each other spiritually and physically as possible. Lovers show their condition through touching, hugging, and kissing. The latter are important in a relationship, because after a kiss you can understand how deep the feelings for a person are, and whether they exist at all. How to properly kiss a guy and a girl on the lips if they have not had such experience? There are many different techniques that are worth considering.
How can you kiss
Kiss - touching something or someone with your lips. The process differs depending on the person's intentions. The other half is kissed for a long time, passionately, the mother is kissed tenderly, meekly, there is no place on the body of the long-awaited child where the mother’s lips do not touch. Residents of different countries have different attitudes towards the phenomenon. The most kissing nations are the Spaniards, Germans, and Dutch. Even when meeting a stranger, they touch their cheeks with their lips. A loving couple kisses passionately - with tongue. Australians touch their foreheads to each other, and the Chinese draw in their partner's breath through their lips and nostrils.
The best kisses
There are many varieties of this phenomenon. The most common kisses in our culture:
- Welcome. When meeting, people kiss each other on the cheek and often quickly touch their lips. The phenomenon is not of an intimate nature.
- Romantic. Happens to people between whom feelings arise. It may first affect the earlobes, cheeks, neck, and slowly move to the lips. It starts with timid, hesitant movements, then gains momentum and develops into a kiss with the tongue.
- Passionate. This category is represented by lip biting, French kissing, and “dancing” with tongues. This includes kissing on the teeth.
- Body kisses. A loving person carefully “explores” especially sensitive areas of the body with his lips - the neck, the curves of the arms, legs, stomach, chest.
Platonic
The classic understanding of platonic love is sublime romantic feelings based on spiritual attraction and not involving physical relationships. Kisses with such love are short, gentle, romantic, without smacking or other sounds. Chaste actions are characteristic of teenagers who are not going to move on to intimate relationships, but are already experiencing feelings. Another understanding of this phenomenon is a friendly, related kiss. He expresses joy and gratitude to his parents, brother, sister, friend or girlfriend. It is also given at a meeting or farewell.
Kiss with tongue
This type of expression of feelings is extremely rare on a first date, although among adults there are exceptions to the rule. Boys and girls should hold off on moving to such a serious stage so as not to be disappointed. You need to think about how to kiss with your tongue correctly when you are confident in your feelings and their reciprocity. This action allows you to feel the taste of your loved one, get to know him better, awaken sensuality and desires.
Kissing on the lips
They won’t tell you how to kiss properly, because each person has their own preferences. However, there are some tricks in this process. A little theoretical preparation will ignite your imagination and provide a wide field of activity. A kiss on the lips can be different:
- Smooth – light sucking, biting lips.
- Smooth - the movements are gentle and slow, they do not bypass a single millimeter of the partner’s lips.
- “Pleasure of the bud” (the view described by the Kama Sutra) - a man gently squeezes a woman’s lips with his fingers and kisses them.
How to start kissing
In this matter, the environment, feelings towards a person of the opposite sex, and mood are important. A young man should invite his significant other on a romantic date. If it goes well, the girl will have “butterflies in her stomach” and you can kiss her while walking her home. Based on your partner’s behavior, you will understand whether he is ready for this stage of the relationship. Burning eyes, reciprocal movements when hugging, stroking - all this indicates that you can act.
Before you kiss on the lips, you should think about your oral hygiene. To ensure that the smell is normal, you should brush your teeth in the morning and evening and properly remove plaque from your tongue. After eating, be sure to rinse your mouth and use a cleansing floss. Take care of the health of your teeth, because caries, holes in the enamel, its darkening or yellowness kill self-confidence.
How to kiss a girl
Previously, women rarely showed such initiative. Today, girls are increasingly taking matters into their own hands and winning. How to learn to kiss first? Three cases in which a kiss is appropriate:
- The young man is older than you. He is afraid of harm, so you yourself let him know when you are ready for the next stage. A girl can give her partner a light kiss or immediately move on to decisive action.
- The guy has no relationship experience. Your careful movements will help to liberate and teach a young man how to kiss correctly.
- You are in a playful mood. You know for sure that the guy likes you, but he is in no hurry. During goodbyes, you can move closer to your partner, clearly making it clear that you are not against something more. Lightly touch your loved one's lips and linger close, waiting for an answer.
How to kiss a guy
Love intentions should not be voiced in the question. This will create a tense environment. How should a guy kiss correctly? A girl should be loved and loving, then all embarrassment will go away. The guy needs to relax, be gentle, decisive, and not skimp on pleasant words (tell her how cool, beautiful, and the best she is). It is not necessary to practice kissing on tomatoes or the tip of a pillow; act intuitively and avoid common mistakes. If a girl closes her teeth or holds her tongue to the roof of her mouth, it means she doesn’t want to continue.
Lip kissing technique
It's never too late to learn, even if you have an idea of how to kiss properly. You need to take care of the condition of your lips in advance - do sugar peeling, apply a softening balm. Be open psychologically - keep your gaze straight, do not cross your arms over your chest, smile, do not cover your face with your palms. Further training will not cause you any difficulties and will lead to complete euphoria in practice.
