If you want to understand the meaning of a sign, look not at the thing, but at its symbolism, meaning, at the images that arise in your mind. After all, it is not the object itself, but its meaning in the psychic field that influences us. A wedding ring is a symbol of marriage. Therefore, everything connected with the ring is transferred to the interpersonal relationships in the couple. It cracked, darkened, got lost, fell - it is believed that the same will happen to the fate of the marriage. This is how our thinking works. This is how superstitions are born. Faith in empty vanity. It’s sad and offensive when people worry because of signs, but not because of their own attitude towards themselves and their partner. All the stories below are true. If there are mystical coincidences, I write about it honestly. These are rare special cases.
1. An uneven surface of a wedding ring means family life with scandals and breakups. What is behind the desire to buy an unusual—not like everyone else—engagement ring? Perhaps the bride and groom are still children at heart and want to play at a wedding: a limousine, guests, a white dress, an exclusive ring. Or they are used to getting everything the best, they are spoiled. Or they pay more attention to the external side of life: wealth, beauty. Or they like to show off. If this is the case, then problems in their future relationship are inevitable. But not because of the ring, but because of the newlyweds’ unpreparedness for the difficulties of marriage.
A friend got married in July. Her ring is smooth, and on the front side there are four large diamonds at intervals. They said it was impossible. They now live through the cracks: sometimes they make peace, sometimes they quarrel, sometimes they even fight.
My friend was dissuaded from buying a newfangled engagement ring (one spins inside the other + stones). She was told that the ring should be smooth, symbolizing stability. But she chose beauty. But life with my husband really didn’t work out. At first we lived quite richly, then drugs and quitting our jobs, then theft and slot machines. Now my husband is sitting. This is probably how superstitions are born or justified?
The uneven surface of the ring can be looked at differently. Do not be afraid of difficulties, be ready to overcome them, as the couple did in the story described below.
“My husband and I recently lost our rings. Now we want to get married. When they first bought it, they approached it with superstition, so that they could buy smooth ones and so that life would be smooth. And now we will buy ribbed ones to reflect the difficulties of married life.
2. For a strong and happy marriage, rings must be gold. There is a belief that choosing a traditional gold ring will help build a strong marriage. And I can give you examples. But remember that this is a new-fangled sign, since the opportunity to buy expensive rings was not available at all times. Our grandmothers made do with simple copper ones. I don’t think that the choice of material plays a mystical role. More likely, household. If the young people are so poor that there is no money for rings, then building a life together will be much more difficult. Love does not always stand the test of lack of money.
They say you can’t change such a tradition as gold rings. Some of my friends decided to buy silver ones. Three months after the wedding, they unexpectedly had a big quarrel and ran away. We tried to persuade them with the whole staff, but they just don’t want to put up with it.
Gold rings became available only in the 60s; before that, rings were either not worn at all, or copper and silver were worn. Both my grandmothers have copper rings! They got married to them in the late 40s and early 50s. One of the grandmothers bought gold only in the 70s. It was like an investment and a symbol of wealth. The second one hasn’t worn a ring at all since she got married on the sly. Gold was available to a very small segment of the population; usually these were earrings and rings as jewelry.
3. Orthodox Christians cannot wear a wedding ring on their left hand, only on their right. Orthodox Christians usually wear a wedding ring on the ring finger of the right hand. Why this happened, no one really knows. This tradition has come a long time ago and is firmly rooted in consciousness. Now a superstition has arisen that wearing a ring on the left (unclean) hand is dangerous. And in other countries, on the contrary, they wear the ring on this side, closer to the heart. It is well known that the church is against superstitions. Often in our hearts we know that a relationship is not destined to last, and we send ourselves signs. Do you believe that if you put a ring on your left hand once, you will definitely get divorced?
I always knew (by the way, I don’t remember where) that when married, an Orthodox wedding ring can only be worn on the right hand and under no circumstances on the left. I got married and planned to live with this man all my life, not in the sense that I was euphoric, but in the sense that I was going to build a family. I usually took the ring off at night. And then, about a year and a half later, I take the ring in the morning and just like that, confidently put it on my left hand. And I stand there, looking at him dumbfounded. Then I tell myself that it’s okay, it’s all nonsense, I need to forget it quickly. I didn’t tell anyone anything and, however, I soon forgot. And I remembered after the divorce...
4. You can’t twist a wedding ring on your finger - you’ll get divorced. A wedding ring is a symbol of a sacred union, a special decoration. Therefore, a frivolous attitude towards a sacred thing is considered unacceptable: throwing it, twisting it. In addition, others are often annoyed when they fiddle with hair, the edges of clothes, and jewelry. Surely someone will pull it. And this is simply a sign of emotional tension hidden within strong feelings:
An acquaintance, when his wife started cheating on him, was outwardly so calm. Only he twisted the ring so hard that we even told him about it.
There are many absurdities: “If a wife buys socks for her husband, the husband will leave. If he’s cowards, he’ll change.” It’s easier not to get married at all than to follow all the rules.
My husband and I have been spinning as a couple for 12 years now. We calm the nerves.
5. The wedding ring has turned black - unfortunately. It happens that the ring turns black. This is considered a bad sign. Although the reason may be a cheap alloy. Or the biochemistry of the body, the skin interacts closely with the ring. During times of stress and strong experiences, hormonal levels change. But, I must admit, there are such coincidence signs, warnings of fate, especially often associated with amulets (for example, crosses, icons, rings).
My wedding ring turned black a month after my wedding. There is no allergy to gold. I went to the jeweler. He said it was the first time he had seen this. The gold is good and the ring is black. Cleaned it. After 2 weeks it turned black again. It reflected our life. I left my husband when my daughter was 6 months old, my husband chased me with a knife when I had my daughter in my arms. Was there a sign from above?
I really believe that ring stories can be harbingers of fate. My husband also lost a ring, and immediately we began to suffer. As soon as he took a mistress, my whole finger under the ring turned black, I was scared to death, I went to church, and there the grannies said, they say, it’s a sign from above, a warning. Well, that’s right, after we got divorced, I wore the ring for a long time, and it never turned black. So don’t believe in omens after this!
7. Losing a wedding ring means divorce. This is the most famous and most controversial sign. It is very frightening, therefore it is dangerous due to the negative programming of spouses. Rings are often lost right at the wedding, because the hands are used for active manipulation, so it’s easy for them to get caught and drop. Many people get divorced, but not because of the rings. Gloves, wallets, keys, crosses, earrings, flash drives, glasses, documents disappear. And the wedding ring, once you lose a little weight, easily slips off your finger. Those who have had to go through a divorce will readily blame the failure on a bad omen. It is important to remember that the loss of a ring on a symbolic level is a sign of release from obligations. It happens that people try to intentionally or unconsciously get rid of it if their spouse has had enough of it. That is, first the desire to break up appears in the soul, and then the ring is lost.
And one friend’s husband came home from work and said that he had lost his ring. And then they got divorced and sorted things out. He admitted that he sold it to a pawnshop and squandered the proceeds with his mistress.
My friend got divorced after losing her ring. True, she was already on the verge of divorce, and the loss of the ring only reassured her of her decision.
When 3 years ago a child broke a mirror into 2 parts, my husband then left us for his mistress. They also said, don’t believe in omens. And he left and still hasn’t returned. A week before he chose her, I lost my engagement ring.
8. You can’t wear other people’s wedding rings—you’re taking over the fate of your former owners. Another ambiguous sign. There are many conflicting opinions on this topic. I think it's important to trust your heart. Do you want to wear the wedding ring of your mother-in-law, mother, grandmother? How easy and comfortable do you feel from this thought? Are you afraid of invisible energy? Or, on the contrary, do you feel the protection and patronage of your ancestors? Answer the questions and it will become clear whether you need to take someone else’s or should you buy a new one.
Before our wedding, my mother-in-law also ordered rings for my husband and me from her wedding ring, hers was so thick. The rings turned out great. I don’t worry about the fate handed down to me; she and her husband have been living together for 35 years! I wish them as many more! So, if you transfer their marital fate to us, I am all FOR it!
I felt sorry for the money for wedding rings; a wedding is already an expensive affair. I wear my mother’s ring, and my husband wears the ring he married for the first time. We polished them in a jewelry shop. My husband immediately took off his ring: he got caught in it several times at work and almost got injured. I wear mine without taking it off.
My opinion: a wedding is a new life that the newlyweds will build themselves, from scratch. And therefore the rings must be new! As an example, I’ll give you the story of my friend. Their rings weren’t new either; she got them from her great-grandmother. He has it left over from his father, whom his mother divorced almost immediately after the birth of her son. Their life is terrible. He goes for walks and likes to drink. Many times they broke up and got back together because of the child. There are no normal relationships. Everyone lives as they want.
But in our first marriage, we went to the registry office with rings “rented”: one from a friend, she kept it after the divorce, and the second was my mother’s engagement ring; although she and her father did not divorce, they did not live together. The first marriage fell apart quickly, and it was somehow... painful for both. It seems to me that it is better to buy new rings, even inexpensive ones, even if they are not made of precious metal: you can then buy others for some anniversary.
I daresay new engagement rings don't always mean happiness. In experience: the first marriage with completely “fresh” rings and broke up, and the second - with the rings of my husband’s deceased parents. Unfortunately, I did not recognize these BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE, but I am sure that only in a loving family could such a wonderful person grow up - my HUSBAND. I took their wedding rings to church and they were lit up there. We have been married for seven years. Happy. We wish the same for you!
In no case!!! No used jewelry, no earrings, no brooches, no rings!!! All the energy accumulated by the item from its previous owners will go to you!
9. You can’t throw the ring on the floor - it will be offended. In family life, the most important thing is sanity and the ability to understand your spouse. If you want to preserve the family hearth without hurting the ring, but pestering your spouse with superstitions, tears, and insults, then such a task is hardly feasible. It is not the abandoned ring that destroys the marriage, but your selfishness, hysteria and anger. In the heat of conflict, the rings are thrown onto the floor and out the window, wherever necessary. But the fate of a marriage is decided by a woman’s ability to cope with her emotions of anger, fear, resentment, and helplessness. If you are not taking care of your spouse, but are worried about the ring - God help you!
In a fit of emotion during an argument, the husband threw his wedding ring on the floor. Reconciliation followed, and, naturally, he put it back on. I read that you shouldn’t throw a ring, it might get offended. Even if people make peace, the cracks in the relationship will only grow, leading to separation. My husband doesn’t believe in all this, but he sees how nervous I am and cry all day. I am a very emotional and impressionable person. Is it true? And how to avoid this? If this is really the case, then how to “reconcile” the wedding ring and make sure it doesn’t get “offended”? I read a lot of forums and already surfed the Internet this morning. Many people say you can’t do this (even though you’ve done it), but there’s not a single word on how to fix it.
And an acquaintance at his own wedding, in a fit of rage, threw his ring into a snowdrift. Naturally, they didn’t find it. They have been living for more than 15 years.
10. In order for the marriage to be strong and the spouses not to separate, you need to wear rings constantly. A most dangerous superstition that can cost you your health. There are activities where wearing a ring on your finger increases the risk of injury. I myself know a wonderful man, an excellent family man, who tore off his finger while jumping off the side of a truck. The ring caught on the piece of iron. This did not affect the marriage in any way, but there is no finger. For a woman it’s even more complicated: the body changes with pregnancy and childbirth. Swelling begins, weight gains, and for some reason few people are in a hurry to adjust the ring to a new size.
My fingers became swollen during pregnancy. I came home and... God, what kind of sausages are these?! So what should we do now? The nameless man turned blue under his wedding band. The husband says: “If you don’t take it off by the evening, we’ll go to the emergency room.” I understand everything, but I CANNOT allow myself to cut up my engagement ring. I don’t really believe in omens, but it’s TABOO. My talisman. In total, four hours, alternately lubricating my fingers with anti-edema gel, holding my hands under ice water, covered in soap and vegetable oil, twisting the ring by the thread, I did THIS!
Read what this sometimes leads to. Be smart!
And my husband recently almost lost his finger because of his wedding ring—the ring got caught on some piece of metal at work. Thank God it worked out. And just before this incident, I was boasting to a friend that my husband never takes off his ring. She boasted and jinxed it.
I know a case from my mother's friends. My husband also persuaded me not to take it off. And during childbirth and after, when she was in the hospital, this began! I almost lost a finger: there was a rush of blood or something. During childbirth, she screamed from pain in her finger, not from contractions! And after giving birth, a carpenter sawed it off for her right on the birthing chair. So her finger probably didn’t move at all for a month. And now it’s bigger than the others, the hematoma has turned into a lump. And the wedding ring certainly won’t fit now.
The strength of a relationship depends to a large extent on character traits; many stories of strong marriages confirm this. I myself don’t believe in omens; my husband and I don’t wear wedding rings.
Dad sold his ring immediately after the wedding. Mom doesn’t wear hers at all because she doesn’t like rings. And they’ve been living together for over 30 years. There was never even a conversation about divorce.
11. You must take off your rings at night, otherwise your sex life will go wrong.
There is such an opinion. Decide for yourself whether to follow it.
By the way, do you know why they wear rings on the ring finger? And they also recommend renting at night? It seems that in China they found out that the ring finger is responsible for sexual energy. You put a ring on your finger - oops, and you don’t want anyone... They’ve stifled your energy... So they wear it so that it doesn’t stand on others. And they rent houses so that they want a husband and wife. I follow the advice, we are fine in bed.
Why is there a need to follow signs? Choosing a life partner, wedding, marriage are the most important milestones in our lives that determine the fate of a person and his children. I myself have been married for 17 years and very happily. But I will say that it is still not an easy matter to build a common life with another person, especially if children are born. The responsibilities increase exponentially! It’s good if you can rely on the experience of your parents and grandparents: on the experience of the generations whose continuation you are. If their family life was happy, then you are calm and signs don’t bother you much. They managed it, so can you. We're just repeating. But if our parents had scandals, there was a divorce, trouble, the pain of betrayal, or, on the contrary, long loneliness, we ourselves - the first in our family - must build strong and warm relationships. Think for yourself, how easy is this task? Often young people try to find support outside themselves, for example, in omens. Therefore, there are many wedding superstitions. Be critical of signs, do not believe their forecasts without analysis and comprehension.
My cousin caused a terrible scandal when they tied a yellow ribbon to the car. We all say that the color yellow at a wedding means separation. So she started to get angry and almost canceled the wedding. They met her halfway and removed this tape. She calmed down. The wedding took place, and six months later they divorced. She simply has such a character that no one can live with her. That's all superstition is.
Looking at the stands of jewelry stores with a lot of expensive jewelry, newlyweds often ask the question: “How to choose the right wedding rings so that they not only fascinate with their beauty, but also bring happiness to their union?” A number of folk signs and superstitions come to the rescue! It’s up to you to believe in them or not, but it’s definitely worth knowing them. Therefore, the Svadebka.ws portal has collected for you the top 10 questions and answers to them regarding signs about wedding rings.
What should wedding rings be like?
The newlyweds’ rings should be identical and smooth, without carvings or inscriptions, which foretells a calm and peaceful family life for the couple, filled with harmony and mutual understanding. And it doesn’t matter whether you give preference to wedding rings made of silver, gold or platinum, the main thing is that they have a smooth and even surface (the same sign applies to wedding rings).
Another superstition comes to the aid of lovers of jewelry with stones - rings with diamonds promise wealth and financial well-being to young people.
Where and when to buy engagement rings?
It is better to purchase wedding rings on the same day in the same store, which promises the newlyweds the unity of their thoughts and souls in marriage. But regarding whether it is possible to buy wedding rings in advance, there are no prohibitions, so feel free to go shopping for jewelry whenever you want!
Is it possible to use other people's rings as wedding rings?
Popular beliefs say that if you use other people, for example, parents, as wedding rings, you can repeat their fate. In principle, if your parents are married long enough and happily, then there is nothing wrong with that. If their union was not very strong, then it is better to abandon this idea and buy new rings for yourself.
But if your grandparents were married until their golden wedding, then their rings can be used as wedding rings, because they have accumulated the power of their ancestors and will become a real amulet for your family, attracting happiness into the home.
Sometimes spouses have the following question: “Can the wife wear the husband’s wedding ring?” There are no superstitions about this, so if you want, you can do it.
A wedding ring falling on a mural is a bad omen or not?
It is believed that dropping a ring during registration is a bad omen, foreshadowing troubles and misfortunes in marriage for the newlyweds. If this does happen, simple steps will help correct the situation: thread a thread through the ring, and then put it on your finger. And after the ceremony, burn the thread, saying the following phrase: “Burn all our troubles and sorrows with fire!”
If they touch the newlyweds' rings - what's the sign?
It is believed that if unmarried girls and unmarried guys touch the rings of the newlyweds, then soon they will also tie the knot.
Why shouldn't newlyweds touch an empty ring box?
According to one of the signs, newlyweds cannot pick up a box without rings after the ceremony. But the one who takes this box will very soon also put an engagement ring on the finger of his other half. Why is it usually given to an unmarried bridesmaid or a free friend of the groom!
Is it possible to put a ring on a glove?
There is such a sign about the bride’s engagement ring, which says that it should not be worn on gloves, otherwise it promises the spouses life separately. Therefore, it is better to remove this wardrobe item during painting!
Is it possible to let other people try on rings?
According to popular signs and superstitions, you should not let your wedding rings be tried on, since you are thereby giving away family happiness to another person. If you cannot refuse such a request, then hand the ring not directly into the person’s hands, but place it on a table or other surface.
An even bigger ban is if someone tries to take your wedding ring off your finger! Do not allow this to happen if you want your union to last for many more decades!
Losing or finding a wedding ring - what is the sign?
There are signs associated with an engagement ring not only before and during the wedding, but also after it. Losing a ring portends a separation from your soulmate. This superstition is explained quite simply: wedding rings, like a husband and wife, are a single whole, and if you lose one of the rings, then the integrity of your union is violated, it can easily collapse.
What to do if your husband lost his wedding ring? Don’t panic, because this is just a sign, and what your union will be like depends only on you. And many couples buy new rings after a while - you can do the same!
Sometimes it happens that one of the spouses has their wedding ring stolen. What do the signs say here? The interpretation here is twofold: on the one hand, this is equated to the loss of the ring, which means an imminent breakup; on the other hand, they say that the jewelry took on some kind of negativity and took it away from the owner’s life. Which interpretation to believe is up to you!
But finding someone else’s engagement ring is lucky! According to popular belief, this promises a speedy wedding for single guys or girls, and for those who have already found a partner, a new addition to the family, well-being and prosperity in the family. Another question is that you should not bring into the house and, especially, wear a found ring, because it has absorbed the energy of the owner, and you do not know whether it was positive.
Is it possible to take off a wedding ring: what do the signs say?
According to popular superstitions, wedding rings should not be removed, which will protect spouses from envy and misfortune. On which finger to wear a wedding ring? Of course, on the nameless one. It is believed that the “vein” of love passes through it!
It happens that the thickness of the spouses’ fingers changes over time and the wedding ring becomes large. What to do if this happens? It is imperative to adjust the size of the decoration, since according to the legend, happiness and love “escape” from the family through it.
The www.site portal told you how to choose an engagement ring and how to wear this important jewelry correctly so that it not only pleases the eye, but also makes your union happy and long!
- You need to buy wedding rings after the engagement, when the groom proposed and the bride and her parents accepted him.
- You cannot purchase marriage symbols on your wedding day.
- Both rings must be purchased at the same time from the same place.
- It is better to opt for the simplest, smooth and even rings that will attract the same impeccable, calm family life.
- Do not engrave your wedding attributes so as not to put your future happiness to the test.
- Prefer products made of precious metals. The newlyweds' favorite is gold (yellow, white, red). This is a symbol of material wealth. Some newlyweds choose platinum as a symbol of the strength and inviolability of marriage. Silver is also allowed.
- It is customary for these paired jewelry to be made in the same style, from the same metal. If the rings are different, one is made of silver, the other is made of gold, then the spouse on whose finger the silver jewelry adorns will dominate the family.
- When choosing, trust your taste, pay less attention to fashion trends. Fashion changes quickly; a wedding attribute should decorate the hand for a long time.
- You need to be in a good mood when buying engagement rings. If it is not there, you should postpone the purchase.
- Aquamarine is the keeper of the family hearth and will prevent adversity.
- Amethyst is the “catcher of happiness.”
- Turquoise is a symbol of fidelity and love.
- A diamond is a sign of strong family ties and represents the success of a person and a marriage.
- Pearls – health and longevity.
- Emerald is the stone of Venus (the goddess of love), enriches intimate relationships, and drives away disturbing thoughts.
- Moonstone is a protector from quarrels.
- Opal is a symbol of trust and sincere feelings.
- Ruby is a sign of eternal love, a protector from the evil eye.
- Sapphire - purity and morality, will help to remain faithful in a couple throughout life.
- Zircon is a deliverer from lovesickness.
- Together with other people's jewelry, you can accept someone else's fate, most likely a bad one.
- Expensive things are ideal for causing damage. When a person gives away or throws away a piece of jewelry, together with it he strives to get rid of a serious illness or other misfortune, shifting the problems onto this thing.
- If a stranger tries on your ring before the wedding, it can ruin all your wedding plans.
- If a stranger takes your marriage attribute after the wedding, he steals your family happiness.
- The ring on the ring finger of the right hand is evidence of a woman’s marriage.
- Marriage attribute on the ring finger of the left hand - the lady is divorced. Sometimes widows or women dreaming of divorce wear a wedding ring on this finger.
- 2 wedding rings (one on the middle finger, the other on the ring finger) - a widowed woman remembers her husband and remains faithful to him. On her middle finger, a woman wears something belonging to her late husband. If such a combination of marriage attributes is on a lady’s hand while her husband is alive, this is a wish for death to the spouse.
- A wedding ring on the little finger is a desire to improve family relationships. Therefore, if the ring has become small, it can be worn on the little finger without harming the marriage.
- The item warns the owner about the infidelity of the spouse.
- A breakdown foreshadows a difficult period in the life of a family with the presentation of mutual claims and stormy showdowns.
- Damage to the ring indicates the appearance of an enemy who wants to quarrel between spouses and casts a spell against them.
Rings are, first of all, a symbol of energy closed in a circle - inextricable unity, dominance, obedience. What are the benefits of rings? What magical powers do rings have? What could the rings mean?
Rings have been an integral part of a person's appearance since ancient times. Historians claim that the roots of wearing hollow metal items on the hands came from Ancient Egypt. It was there that headbands and rings began to be considered symbols of love and power. Because of their closed shape, from ancient times many magical properties were attributed to these decorations - protection from troubles, treatment of illnesses and good luck.
The ring as an adornment has a long history. While many people now wear rings as decoration or as a sign of their marital status, rings were originally worn to protect themselves and concentrate positive energy. Over time, the fashion of wearing a ring on a finger has acquired various stories, signs and beliefs.
If your wedding ring is lost and is nowhere to be found, you will have to part with the second one in order to preserve peace in the family and not bring trouble to the couple. The second ring must be removed and, as it is believed, it must be donated to the church - this is what will help preserve family happiness.
A ring is not given to anyone except the betrothed; giving it to someone is the same as giving your life.
If you have lost a watch, bracelet or ring that your loved one gave you, then soon quarrels will begin between you based on jealousy.
A ring around the moon - towards the wind, a reddish circle around the moon, soon disappearing - towards the wind; two such circles or one dim one means frost, interrupted means snow.
If you suddenly find your lost ring at home, it means new sympathy.
The girl spills tea on herself - she will soon put a wedding ring on her finger.
Under no circumstances should you wear wedding rings made from melted or sawn jewelry, even if it was your parents' jewelry.
If you pass a crumb from a wedding cake three times through a wedding ring and put it under your pillow, then your betrothed (or betrothed) will appear to you in a dream.
If one of the spouses - the wife or husband - has lost the ring, it means that the other is cheating on him.
Losing a wedding ring means separation from your soul mate.
When put on, the wedding ring falls off - betrayal awaits the newlyweds. And the one whose ring fell will do it.
Dropping a wedding ring at the registry office means divorce.
The most important thing in all folk signs is the threat to the integrity of the family, the strength of which is precisely symbolized by the wedding ring.
If the ring was lost and soon found, this means that fate prepared trials and tribulations for you, but they passed you by. Your jewelry became a talisman and absorbed negativity, protecting you from troubles.
Newlyweds should not wear their parents' wedding rings, especially if their marriage has broken down.
The sign states that by running a gold ring across a burning cheek, you can find out whether people are being spoken well or badly about a person. Thus, a black mark from the ring indicates swearing at the owner of burning cheeks, and if it remains white, public opinion is favorable.
After the funeral, the widow (or widower) should no longer wear a wedding ring, otherwise they will be betrothed to the deceased!
Wedding rings should never be given to anyone to try on, either before or after the wedding.
The wedding ring should not be given to anyone to try on, otherwise constant quarrels and troubles will occur between the spouses.
An engaged girl should not try on an engagement ring as this may result in a sudden break with her fiancé.
It's bad luck to drop your wedding ring before putting it on your finger. If you do drop the ring, then a thread is threaded through it, which should be prepared in advance by witnesses and which will gather bad omens. After this, the ring can be put on. After registration is completed, the thread must be burned, saying: “burn all my troubles and sorrows with fire.” The one who dropped the ring burns the thread.
Losing a gold ring given by a loved one foreshadows a conflict with him.
Losing a ring means incurring troubles, losses, and large expenses of money. Also, this loss can predict imminent health problems.
Precious finds - rings, earrings, bracelets - are considered harbingers of love.
A ring that was lost at home earlier and found again is a sure sign of future love, and an earring or a pair of earrings promises a wedding.
You shouldn’t let others try on your loved ones’ gifts, especially rings, as this leads to a quarrel.
During the wedding, it was discovered that the ring did not fit - an unkind omen, promising an unhappy marriage.
To speed up your wedding, you can embroider gold wedding rings on a red background.
If you suddenly find someone else's ring somewhere, this event, according to signs, promises good luck and happiness, great love or wealth.
Losing a wedding ring and then suddenly finding it means that fate helps you avoid trouble. In this case, the decoration acts as a talisman and takes on some negativity.
It is a bad omen to drop a ring or a gifted piece of clothing before putting it on - to a quick break.
Failures in love will occur if you try on other people's wedding dresses or rings.
If you lost a ring that you bought yourself, the most important thing you can do is ask the Universe for help. A believer should go to church and pray.
If you are getting divorced (God forbid, of course), do not wear wedding rings as regular jewelry - this is not a good sign for your future personal relationships.
If your cheeks are burning, it means someone is discussing you. You can find out what they are saying, good or bad, by passing a gold ring across your burning cheek. If the stripe from the ring is light, then they remember you with a kind word, a red mark indicates that the person thinking about you has not yet formed a definite opinion, and a black stripe left by a gold ring reports an unkind attitude towards you.
Losing a wedding ring means divorce, separation.
Dropping a ring before or during a wedding has always been considered a very bad omen. This usually promises a quick divorce!
The loss of an eternal ring means the imminent death of a loved one.
Losing a ring, watch, bracelet - given by a loved one - means separation.
Losing your wedding ring is a very bad sign: death.
If the deceased was married, his widow should not wear a wedding ring, so as not to incur a serious illness. The same applies to widowers.
Breaking a heel or nail, losing an earring or ring - all this also portends the approach of love.
Wedding rings should not be lost. It is believed that this portends various troubles and quarrels, which can even lead to divorce.
To prevent your hands from going numb, you should wear a copper ring, especially if you have found one.
Losing a wedding ring means early death.
Receive a ring as a gift from your sweetheart - marriage is inevitable! But the more expensive and heavier the donated ring, the harder your life together will be. So, girls, try to accept elegant and thin rings as gifts!
A ring around the sun means bad weather.
A circle around the sun that does not separate when disappearing means good and dry weather. If the circle breaks, then there will be wind from the side of the ring break. If the circle is dark, in winter it foretells cold, in summer it foretells rain and wind. The circle is greenish or reddish before sunrise or sunset - rain or wind for several days.
You shouldn’t give a wedding ring to anyone even to try it on, let alone let them wear it. Moreover, folk wisdom does not recommend removing the ring unless absolutely necessary, so that harmony reigns in the family.
The wedding ring disappeared shortly after the wedding - this may mean infidelity of the chosen one and quarrels.
Lost wedding ring after many years of wear - this promises problems and discord in the family.
After the engagement, do not try on the wedding ring - this will lead to a break in the relationship.
Gold wedding rings - you need to embroider their image on a red (required) background.
An engaged girl should not try on an engagement ring just yet, as this could result in a sudden break with her fiancé. And, of course, under no circumstances should you lose this ring.
Losing a wedding ring leads to a quick divorce or serious discord in the family.
No one can try on the bride's jewelry, dress, and especially the wedding ring.
“A wedding ring is not just a piece of jewelry!” This is what is sung in a famous song, and it is without this attribute that no wedding is possible. A wedding ring is not just a piece of jewelry made of precious metal - it is a magical symbol of life and death.
Wedding rings have a strong energy and powerful force. Over time, they energetically merge with their owner, are able to help in difficult situations and even predict the future.
On your wedding day, wedding rings become important symbols of the unity of two loving hearts. There are many superstitions and signs associated with these accessories, by which one can judge whether happiness and harmonious relationships await the newlyweds in the future.
The history of engagement rings goes back to ancient times. And, despite changes in society, morals and values, they still remain a symbol of boundless love and devotion. In addition, a wedding is a significant and sacred event in the life of every couple, covered in special mysticism and superstitions.
For the birthday of a new family - a wedding - lovers prepare thoroughly, plan every detail of the upcoming event, not forgetting to take into account the ancient signs about wedding rings, which largely determine the future of the union.
An engagement ring is the cherished dream of almost every girl and her parents. But this piece of jewelry not only adorns a delicate hand, but also endows its owner with magical powers and protects the home from all troubles and misfortunes.
There are many superstitions about wedding rings. All of them relate mainly to family happiness. For those who wear the attributes of marriage or are just about to wear them, it would not hurt to study folk signs about wedding rings in order to choose and use them correctly.
Buying wedding rings
Signs and superstitions about wedding rings dictate what they should be like and how to buy them. Popular rumor claims that these nuances affect future married life.
When to buy?
Oddly enough, there are also superstitions about this:
If the groom wants to give a ring at the time of the marriage proposal, it should be an engagement ring. It has special power. If a girl gives her consent to marriage, then wearing an engagement symbol, she cannot flirt with young people.
Who should buy?
According to ancient traditions, the groom must choose and purchase it personally. Times have changed, the range of jewelry has expanded significantly, so the presence of the bride in a jewelry salon is acceptable. She can help with the choice, but the man must pay for the purchase.
How to choose?
In order for the family amulet to show all its strength, the wedding ring must be chosen correctly:
If, when thinking about wedding rings, you imagine an accessory with stones, you need to know the signs about these additional inlay elements:
There is one more useful sign. Upon returning home with a successful acquisition, say out loud at the doorstep: “To a happy life, to a strong family! Amen!"
Is it possible to take someone else's?
It is highly not recommended not only to use it for a wedding ritual, but also to simply try on used wedding rings. No matter how profitable it is to buy used rings, you should avoid it. You should also not accept wedding symbols as gifts or borrow them from friends.
Superstition on this matter states:
Is it possible to try on wedding jewelry before the wedding?
According to signs, wedding rings after purchase cannot be worn until the marriage ceremony. Actually, there is no need for such a fitting, there is only simple curiosity. The magic of the wedding ritual lies in the novelty of sensations, so newlyweds put rings on each other for the first time in the registry office or during the wedding.
Signs about wedding rings do not say to wear these accessories until the wedding. It is recommended to fill them with water in a single container and freeze them. But if the bride wears a wedding ring, this means that the girl remains pure until the wedding. In this case, wearing a ring is acceptable.
What to do if the bride has lost her engagement ring?
Losing any ring is a bad sign. It's much worse when a wedding or engagement ring disappears. This suggests that the wedding may be upset, that the girl is unsure of her feelings, or that the young man made an insincere proposal. In this case, the bride and groom should listen to their feelings so as not to make an unfortunate mistake.
If a piece of jewelry accidentally falls off the bride’s finger, and the future newlyweds are confident in their desire to start a family, they urgently need to buy the same exact piece of jewelry as it was. The bride should continue to wear it.
How to handle wedding rings?
When you are married, wedding rings must be handled very carefully.
Is it allowed to rent or sell?
They cannot be pawned or sold, because this amounts to exchanging family happiness for money. You can also lose something very important in life if you sell the ring of your deceased spouse.
But after a divorce, the symbols of the former marriage are an obstacle to creating new relationships and finding other family happiness. They should be removed from the house (sold, donated, or even thrown away). Moreover, if you simply melt down the ring, it can preserve the energy of the broken union and continue to ruin life.
A wedding ring fell on a mural
This is a bad omen, foreshadowing an imminent separation, but it is easy to neutralize. To do this, the witness must pull a white thread through the ring, and the culprit of the incident (“the bungler” who dropped the attribute) must burn this thread with the words: “Fire, take all our troubles and sorrows.” It is believed that the thread will take over a bad omen, and the fire will completely destroy it.
Why shouldn't newlyweds touch an empty ring box?
After the main attributes of the wedding celebration are on the fingers of the newlyweds, the bride and groom should not pick up the box or pillow on which the betrothal symbols rested. This item should be taken by anyone who wants to get married as soon as possible (the girl can be one of the newlyweds’ friends or relatives).
A stand for rings (a box, a pillow, a saucer, etc.) has the same magical power as the bride’s bouquet, which is usually thrown into a crowd of bridesmaids at a wedding. An empty ring box becomes a kind of “catcher” for a new wedding.
Is it possible to put a ring on a glove?
This question interests brides for whom gloves are an integral attribute of their image, and newlyweds with various hand defects, serious or minor.
It is strictly forbidden to put a ring on a glove only during a wedding. When getting engaged at the registry office, there is no such strict prohibition. It is customary to remove the glove during the exchange of rings, even for reasons of practicality. To fit the decoration onto the fabric, it must be larger than necessary. Wearing such a ring in the future will be inconvenient, it will be easy to lose it, or you will have to hold it on your hand with a second one.
Is it possible to let other people try it on?
“A wedding ring is not a simple piece of jewelry...”, so you shouldn’t even let other people hold it, let alone try it on. Counts:
Is it possible to film?
In the old days, after the wedding, it was not customary to remove the attributes of marriage, because they are a symbol of love, a talisman against any shocks and serious illnesses. It was believed that when a person takes off his wedding ring, he and his significant other are left without protection.
But modern experts (medics and experts in esotericism) do not constantly recommend it in order to avoid blocking the energy flow. In practice, you have to remove jewelry when performing wet work. It is recommended not to put on the wedding ring yourself - this should be done by the spouse each time. This will preserve the strength of the union.
Some women get scared when their husband doesn't wear a ring. Of course, you need to be vigilant. Suddenly a man does not want to reveal his marital status to his passion or mistress. But many representatives of the stronger sex simply do not like to wear jewelry; they are irritated by unnecessary elements on their hands.
Which finger to wear the ring on
The placement of the ring on the hand is as important as the symbolic decoration itself. Traditionally, wedding and engagement rings are worn on the ring finger. Only in the USA and most European countries is the sign of marriage on the left hand, and in Russia - on the right. The reasons for such differences are unclear. After all, the ring finger of the left hand is directly connected to the heart. It is quite logical to wear a symbol of love and fidelity on it.
Women pay more attention to conventions. Therefore, you can find out about a lady’s marital status by the jewelry on her hands:
All of the above rules apply to men as well. Only the stronger sex often does not wear wedding jewelry. But an experienced eye allows one to judge a man’s marital status even by the mark of the ring on his finger.
Can I use my parents' wedding rings?
The marriage attributes of older relatives can be passed on to subsequent generations if the parents’ marriage was long and happy (people lived at least until their silver wedding).
Family heirlooms can be worn or not worn, but they cannot be melted down so that the accumulated positive experience does not disappear. If the jewelry does not fit, it is better to carefully store it together in a box. This way they will bring more benefits to the new family.
Other signs about wedding rings
There are many beliefs about wedding rings. For example, if a husband leaves home, the wife only needs to look after him through her wedding ring, and the man will definitely return. Wedding jewelry serves as a talisman for the whole family, and not just for the person to whom it belongs. For example, if a baby is sick, you can put his father or mother’s wedding ring under his pillow, the child will recover quickly.
The magical power of rings is obtained as a result of reading special spells over them, or during religious ceremonies (engagement, betrothal). It is clear that any troubles with such expensive items (broken, cracked, blackened) cause anxiety in their owner.
If it is an engagement or wedding ceremony, this indicates the instability of the couple’s relationship. There are several explanations:
In the latter case, the thing deteriorates, taking on other people's bad thoughts and averting trouble. Therefore, there is no need to torment your partner with suspicions. It's better to buy new rings and exchange them. Moreover, it is important to buy exactly 2 new jewelry so as not to break the pair. Old rings can be melted down into other jewelry.
If the wedding ring turns black, it brings sad thoughts. In fact, it is explained by the low quality of the metal. If the real gold ring or the finger underneath it darkens, this means that there is a lot of negativity around (envy, enemies), and the wedding attribute is taking it upon itself.
There are various signs about wedding rings, and those who are planning to get married, who are preparing for a divorce or a second wedding should know about them.
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Signs about wedding rings
Wedding rings are a symbol of a happy marriage, so signs about them are given considerable importance. Many people get married only once in their lives - this is another reason to choose carefully. From this article you will learn everything important about this subject. 
In the old days, wedding rings were considered a strong amulet that protected family happiness and kept spouses from all troubles. Therefore, they wore it almost without taking it off. When this is done, the marriage will be strong.
Signs do not allow you to let your girlfriends try them on. This cannot be done either before or after the wedding. So give up your destiny or family happiness. When you can’t get rid of an annoying acquaintance, first place the jewelry on a table or other surface, but do not give it from your hands.
Wedding rings should not be lost. It is believed that this will lead to various troubles and quarrels, which can lead to divorce. You will learn more about this superstition from the article about .
Superstitions about wedding rings concern not only the bride and groom, but also the guests at the wedding. When a girl or an unmarried man touches them, they will soon have their own wedding. People know about this superstition, they try to follow it, but they trust this to close friends. There is a similar tradition with an empty jewelry box - it must be picked up when the bride and groom put them on. More often the witness strives for this when she wants to get married quickly.
Young people are warned about rings not to drop them accidentally. This portends many troubles in future family life. When this happens, first thread a white thread through it, and then put it on. This is also trusted by witnesses. If possible, they give the thread to the one who dropped the wedding symbol to burn with the words:
Burn all my troubles and sorrows with fire.
Also, such decoration is not worn on a glove. When they are included in a wedding outfit, you will have to take one off first. Worn on the ring finger, it is associated with the Sun, like gold, which serves as a material for making wedding rings.
What wedding rings should be like - signs
Purchasing and deciding what kind of wedding rings to wear, as well as knowing what they will accept, is the responsibility of the groom. He bought both in the same store and at the same time. Now they are chosen together, but it is important to follow certain rules. There are separate beliefs about engagement rings, wedding rings, as well as the rings of divorced people and widows; read them below.
Be sure to purchase from the same store and at the same time. This symbolizes living together; products from different places mean quarrel and divorce.
Signs on how to choose wedding rings recommend those made of a homogeneous metal. It is not advisable for jewelry to have carvings or inscriptions on it. It is believed that those who marry with a smooth one will also have a smooth family life. The classic wedding ring that grandmothers chose did not have carvings and were not encrusted with precious stones. It is believed that such models bring happiness in marriage.
But rings with stones are gradually gaining popularity. This applies to diamonds. They are a symbol of prosperity and a happy life, and the material component is important. But there are those who associate them with a “stumbling block” and therefore avoid such decorations.
Others prefer not to buy jewelry, but use those that belonged to their ancestors, and also pass them on to the next generation. When your parents or grandparents are unhappy together, don't take the ring from them. Jewelry from the wedding of those who have lived together for 25 years and whose marriage is a model of happiness can bring happiness to the next generation. The best decorations are those of relatives who celebrated their golden wedding. They accumulate, which helps create a strong, happy family.
Do not take the rings of divorced or widowed people for engagement, and do not try them on - a sign with a negative meaning, which indicates a repeat of the fate of the owner of the jewelry. It also cannot be melted down. Below you will find out what to do with such rings so as not to harm your personal life.
Material for wedding rings is gold. But there are products made of platinum and silver, which have their own audience and are also relevant. When you set a goal to save your future family budget and do not plan to spend money on a wedding, choose a product made of silver, which is cheaper than gold. But don't borrow jewelry from friends, especially when you're unhappy in your marriage. You risk ruining your marriage and quarreling with these friends.
Wedding, engagement ring - signs
Engagement, or matchmaking, is an old tradition. It includes a formal marriage proposal to the future wife, a conversation with the bride's parents about the time and place of the wedding. In the days of our ancestors, an engagement ring was not often presented, but signs about it were preserved.
This is usually worn before the wedding, but it is not necessary to take it off when you put on your wedding band. Therefore, choose jewelry to match each other. Most often made of gold or platinum. Those who want to save money do not buy engagement rings and limit themselves to wedding rings.
The engagement ring, according to signs, is encrusted with stones. It’s good when diamonds - a symbol of happiness, prosperity and love, also have protective properties.
Signs forbid taking off your engagement ring before you start wearing your wedding ring - before the wedding ceremony. This is a symbol of the strength of seriousness of intentions, which deserves an appropriate attitude. It is also allowed to be passed on by inheritance, especially when they are happily married. Like an engagement ring, it stores experience that it will pass on to future generations.
Bad omens include losing an engagement ring,. The meaning is the same as for similar signs about wedding rings.
Wedding rings are worn together with engagement rings, so when choosing, consider how they will go together. But more often it is one ring - today they try to hold the engagement and wedding on the same day. It is believed that the wife is entitled to silver, and the husband – gold. Without engravings on the surface and decorations in the form of stones. Like engagement rings, they are not removed throughout life. Wedding rings contain powerful magic that will cure illness, save you from damage and save your marriage.
Rings for widows and divorcees - what to do after a divorce
Widows continue to wear wedding, engagement and engagement rings. But not on the right, but on the left hand. They do not pass the rings on to inheritance so that their descendants do not repeat their fate.
