Perhaps every young person at least once in his life faced with such a question: “Are my feelings mutual?”. Of course, you can ask the girl directly. But what to do if there are too many doubts, but you don’t want to make yourself look stupid?
In this case, the unconscious actions of the girl come to the rescue, which she herself may not notice. But knowing about their existence and being able to read them, you can easily determine whether you really have a chance for reciprocity.
Signs that she loves you
All unconscious actions of a person can be divided into 3 groups: behavior, look, gestures. Let's analyze each separately.
Behavior
In order to find out if a girl is in love, you need to observe how she behaves. Here are the main signs:
- Interest. A girl who is not indifferent is usually very pleased to hear about your affairs. A sure sign - if a girl tries to ask someone else about you, she asks mutual friends about your condition. If a girl is always ready to help you, regardless of her own affairs, then most likely she likes you.
- Communication. The girl who likes you will seek communication with you. She would rather talk to you than talk to a friend.
Pay attention: if a girl stays close to you at all general meetings and tries to speak, this is a sure sign.
- self-sacrifice. Do you know that she is terribly afraid of drowning, but she boldly climbs into the boat after you? She definitely likes you.
A girl in love very often puts the guy's interests in the foreground, forgetting about her own for a while. But remember that the girl will expect the same from you, do not disappoint her.
- Presents. A gift without a reason is a reason to think about the nature of your relationship. This is the most obvious way for a girl to convey that she likes a guy. If you were presented with a handmade thing, in which a lot of time and effort was invested, this can be a help for a long, serious relationship.
- Jealousy. Caught a look full of displeasure when he spoke to her friend? Helped a sweet stranger on the street, and then you can’t understand what upset her so much? She's just jealous of you. Even if you are not yet in a relationship, a girl in love does not want to share you with others at all.
- Care. If you get sick, and she comes to you more often than all the other friends, if she wants to take care of your condition, she definitely likes you. All girls have a maternal instinct that makes them take care of people. But only about special, dear people.
- Happiness. There is one more, perhaps the most not obvious sign. But it is also worth paying attention to: a girl in love (even if unrequited so far) looks like a little sun. She rejoices in every little thing, and it seems that nothing can upset her.
Sight
- You are capable catch her eye on you when you are in a big company? See if this happens often. If at least three or four times during your meeting - you are definitely interesting to the girl, she wants to look at you.
- If looking at you the pupils of a woman in love increase, then this is a true physiological sign. But please do not try to see the changes in girls with dark eyes. Even if you succeed, you run the risk of embarrassing or scaring the chosen one.
- You looked at the girl and saw how she looked sharply in the other direction? This means that she is in love with you and is embarrassed by this. She wants to look at you, she wants to date you, but she is afraid that you will not reciprocate her feelings.
Sign language
- touch.A girl in love will constantly look for touches to the object of feelings, often even unconsciously for herself. She will sit closer to you in a cafe, in all the attractions, in a cinema and in other places. What for? Hoping that at some point your hands will meet.
If a girl is constantly trying to straighten your hair, slap on your shoulder or remove an invisible speck of dust from you, you can safely confess your feelings to her - and you will surely get reciprocity. - Excitement. For any woman, meeting with objects of sighing is a very exciting event. Looking at her at this moment, you can easily understand if she feels something for you.
A girl in love may have a slight blush on her cheeks and rapid breathing; she will not know where to put her hands and may even answer inappropriately. In order to notice these subtle, almost invisible signs, you need to develop good powers of observation.
- flirt. Girls are big coquettes. And it is not surprising that a girl in love with you will flirt with you. flirt - the right way determine sympathy, "test the ground." How do you know if a girl is flirting? A sure sign of flirting is compliments. They can be both direct and veiled "woven" into the conversation.
Often, flirting, a girl teases, teases you. Do not be offended - this is a sign that she likes you. Of course, provided that the girl does not do this often and only on those topics that you make fun of in yourself.
An equally important sign of flirting are gestures and movements. If a girl in a conversation “shoots” with her eyes, twists her curls and smiles sweetly - be sure she likes you, and she flirts with you.
- rapport. Another sign is that the girl unconsciously “mirrors” your poses. She can keep pace with you, sit in a cafe in the same position, hold her hands in the same way - all this will be a sign of sympathy.
- Personal space. If a girl is calm about your intrusions into her personal space, this will also be a sign of her sympathy for you.
What is an invasion of personal space? This is if you touch her hair or cheek without her permission, if you suddenly bite off a piece of her ice cream, or take a ringing phone out of her purse to give it to her. Did the girl endure it all? She really likes you a lot.
Signs of indifference on the part of a woman
Here are some of the main signs that indicate that a girl does not love you:
- If a girl calls you not for the purpose of talking, but only in those cases when she needs something, this may be a sign - she's just using you.
But feel the difference. If you chatted with a girl for an hour, and in the course of a conversation about books, she asked you to nail the bookshelf, then she is probably just looking for a meeting. And if she, having called, began a conversation with the words “fix”, “borrow” or “buy”, then you are completely indifferent to her.
- Young woman tells you about his relationships with guys? So you are only a friend to her, and she is in love with another. If she liked you, she (even when meeting with someone else) would not once again remind you of this.
- If you have already met, but the relationship has already deteriorated, and you decided to break it off, look at the girl's reaction. If she is sincerely upset, then she still has feelings for you and everything can be restored. If she doesn't care, then the relationship has become obsolete, and you did the right thing that you decided to break it.
But if, under the threat of parting, a girl suddenly begins to show such an interest in you that she has never had before, this is a reason to think - maybe she is just using you and does not want to lose a source of money or help?
In this video, you can see how a girl in love behaves with examples:
Now you have all the information you need. You just need to look closely at the girl. She will definitely give herself away in a word, gesture or deed.
Hello friends! Whether a guy loves a girl is not difficult to find out, as a rule, young people are straightforward and rarely hide their feelings. The representative of the fair half is another matter, their feelings and actions sometimes do not find a logical explanation. Therefore, many guys often ask themselves: how to understand that a girl loves you, but hides her feelings? It is not difficult to understand this, it is enough just to know how a young lady in love behaves. This is what I will tell you today.
Signs of a girl's love
They can be conditionally divided into two groups: those that are amenable to external control, and those that manifest themselves at a subconscious level. Consider the first group of signs:
- Talk.
In a conversation with the object of her adoration, the girl listens carefully, occasionally inserting remarks and nodding her head. She empathizes with all your problems and gives advice. Men can easily check the interest of a lady in person - just start an uninteresting and boring topic of conversation for her (about the hadron collider, for example), and if she listens with genuine interest, then she loves.
- Sight.
The look of a girl can say a lot. If you caught her eye, and she looked down, she is embarrassed, which speaks of tender feelings for you. If she holds her gaze for a long time and does not tear it off, she is in love and does not hide this feeling.
- Care.
This is especially noticeable in the relationship of the psychological type "mother - son". When a young lady is in love, she always tries to please - to feed her with a delicious dinner, cure a cold, wash her clothes, and never once reproach her for being late or scattered socks. The girl is always happy to help, not only to her beloved, but to his friends and relatives (even not very familiar ones) - it is important for her that this help will be connected with her beloved. For some ladies, this kind of help is a simple desire to please a man, and for some loving beauties, such help and caring for a loved one even brings pleasure.
- Communication activity.
- she is looking for a reason to communicate, no matter in social networks or live. A loving girl is ready to write SMS every day and all day, in SMS she often uses emoticons, exclamation marks, dots. A girl can make appointments herself or come to your house - it all depends on upbringing, such activity is already proof of love.
- Reliability.
A loving girl is the most faithful and reliable friend. She easily says goodbye to everyone and friends and devotes herself only to her beloved. If in life men do not come better times, she will be there and go through all the difficulties with him.
Now let's talk about the "hidden" signs of love, by which you can understand that the girl loves you, but hides it.
- Preening.
When a beloved guy appears, almost all girls begin to straighten their hair, clothes, makeup. This is especially noticeable when a young man appears unexpectedly and takes the girl by surprise.
- Excitement.
Girls, especially those who are not experienced in dealing with the stronger sex, often “surrender” themselves with excitement. A shaky voice, a stumbling gait (especially when wearing heels), a scarlet blush on her cheeks, out of place remarks - all this indicates the tender feelings of the girl.
- Touch.
A girl can constantly straighten a man's clothes, pat on the shoulder, take his hand, sit next to him - tactile contact and close presence for loving girls very important, it nourishes the love of the girl and makes her even stronger. You can check this yourself - try to touch the girl (to the arm, shoulder), she may be embarrassed, but your touch will be pleasant to her.
- Jealousy.
At the beginning of a relationship, jealousy is especially revealing. A lady may not like that you pay attention to other people. At the same time, jealousy can manifest itself openly - in the form of a scandal, claims, or in latent form- depression, lack of mood.
- Control.
Even on a subconscious level, some girls tend to control their object of sighing - constantly follow updates on social networks, call, write, cohabitation require a password from the page, view calls and messages on the phone.
This is the behavior of loving girls in normal situations, but there are times when girls in love can behave differently.
Other signs of a girl's love
Girls are unpredictable people, when they are controlled by a feeling of love, many people can differ in extroverted behavior. For example, a girl in love attracts the attention of a guy she likes in such ways:
- trying to offend;
- constantly gets in the way;
- trying to push, hurt;
- asks for help;
- joking, teasing;
- flirting, flirting.
Such behavior is typical of proactive girls who are the first to attract attention and express their feelings. Their behavior is easy to guess, and only a guy of a close mind will not fall for their bait.
The most difficult thing is with the girls - shy. Girls are introverts - most of all they hide their feelings, rarely show emotions, they can be silent about feelings for years, and not say that they love you. Therefore, in order to understand whether a girl loves you, you need to ask her close people - a friend, a sister. If this option does not help, you can apply some tricks that will project her attitude towards you:
- grab her thing from her hands (phone, book, purse);
- touch her (touch her hair, earrings);
- hug her at a meeting and kiss her on the cheek;
- smile at her.
If she succumbs to all provocations and reciprocates - you did everything right, she is really not indifferent to you and you can safely take care of her. Write your feedback and wishes in the comments, always yours, old womanizer Panteley.
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How to understand that a girl loves you? Are there any tips that will help men sort out their feelings and not lose their dignity if a girl says no? When a guy falls in love, he catches every glance of his passion, but it is not always possible to read true thoughts, because a girl is not always ready to demonstrate her love, waiting for the first step from a man. That is why it is important to know what are the signs of a woman's love.
Interested look
It is the look that helps to check whether a girl loves you or not. Do you want to make sure yourself? Keep your gaze on her, and if your assumptions are justified, the girl will do the same. Although, of course, a woman herself begins to look at a man if she falls in love with him. Her gaze becomes interested, she, as the people say, "shoots" with her eyes. This means that she does not look directly at the guy, but catches his eye, and immediately looks away, and then looks again. A slight blush on the cheeks will reinforce your guesses.
Frequent calls or texts
How does a woman in love behave? She begins to look for meetings with a man, such is her psychology. For this reason, she does not hesitate to take the first step, trying to call or send SMS with the most innocent or laid-back reason. In this case, she tries to seem direct, but several calls in one day can already confirm that the girl loves you.
Signs of attention
The behavior of a woman in love is significantly different from all the others. The fair sex begins to take care of her man, she is interested in him emotional condition, health. A girl in love has a desire to feed a man, because they have been told since childhood that they must look for the way to the heart of their lover through the stomach. And when the girls notice a slightly torn off button, they immediately try to sew it on. These signs of concern indicate that she loves you.
It takes into account your interests and abilities
If a girl is in love with you, she will listen to your opinion, understanding every word you say. If today is football, then you will watch it. If you don’t like women’s shopping, then she will go with her friends, and she will save her lover’s nerves. But if a woman does not love a man, then she absolutely does not care where he spends time or with whom. If you want to check the seriousness of her feelings, then just change the general plans a little, but in your own direction. And if she loves you, she will agree with all the arguments.
Minor gifts
How to understand that a girl is in love? This is not difficult to do if you notice not only increased attention from her, but also receive gifts from her. Of course, girls love when they are given jewelry, taken to a restaurant, all this does not negate female activity. A loving look and a cute thing in a gift box will emphasize a serious feeling. So as a gift you can get a mug with a heart, a magnet with a love message and other useless things with a pronounced hint of love.
Loyalty
The state of love in women is expressed in fidelity, because if one man is already interested in her, she will never look at others. The most interesting thing is that in this state she does not need money or cars, she is really in love with a person, with his appearance, soul, and what is behind him does not interest her at all. And even if there is a more wealthy candidate for the role of the groom nearby, she will still ignore him.
Sincerity of beautiful words
How do women love? They are not shy in expressing their feelings, they say that they love, and they do it so often that it is already boring. Sometimes a girl tries to deceive her boyfriend in order to get some benefit from him. In this case, she also often says that she likes you, but sincerity in words and eyes is not visible, and this is very easy to notice.
The girl takes care of herself
Signs of female love are also in her appearance. If you have known each other for more than one day, and you know that she usually ties her hair on her head in a ponytail, does not make up and walks in trousers, and suddenly comes with styling on her head, in a short skirt and high heels, then she is in love. Well-groomedness is one of the most striking symptoms, because the girl is trying to please you.
Smile and kindness
Everyone who has had to fall in love knows very well that at this moment you want to enjoy life. It's all about endorphins - hormones of joy that are released in the body. A woman smiles more often, and in front of her lover she tries to shine as much as possible, demonstrating her benevolence.
experiences
To find out how a girl in love behaves, you can try to ignore her. She tries to please you, gives gifts, constantly calls and reminds you of herself, and you, in turn, ignore her. Real feelings will make her worry, and she begins to suffer why the guy does not pay attention to her. How to determine that she is worried? The girl may become even more intrusive, her speech becomes less confident, but she still tries to catch the eye of her beloved and make him happy.
Inspiration
How do girls love when their feelings are real? They are ready to move mountains after communicating with a loved one. Incredible energy, increased readiness for a change of scenery, slight emotional excitability - all this can be a sign of a girl falling in love.
Fear of losing a loved one
To understand that a woman is in love, it is enough to provoke a quarrel. By the way, it will not be so easy to do this, because when she starts to fall in love, she agrees with absolutely everything. If the quarrel is still successful, it will not be long, and as a result, the woman will behave complaisantly. When a girl fell in love, and her feeling turned out to be mutual, she tries to maintain the relationship, and is afraid that the guy will leave her.
Jealousy
Certain signs in behavior can confirm a woman's love. For example, she becomes jealous as soon as she realizes that a possible competitor has appeared nearby. A man cannot look the other way, because then a woman in love will begin to react. Jealousy is a good sign, but only if it is moderate.
She doesn't see flaws
A sign that a woman loves is her restraint in relation to the shortcomings of a loved one. A knowing look at scattered socks, dirty dishes and other possible disadvantages pleases a man and confirms that she is in love.
How to understand if a girl is in love if she hides her feelings? In this case, her behavior may repeat all the signs listed above, but only they will be veiled. The girl is also looking for meetings, but under a different pretext, she asks about you mutual acquaintances or friends. Care on her part will be less active, and she will never be the first to ask - do you like me or not?
But when a woman does not love, or she does not even have an interest in a man, she will never bring him a cup of tea, and will wait for the first such action from him. She is not interested in your friends, family, work, hobbies. There is no sense of tact in conversations, and even if she has a good upbringing, she will obviously avoid a second conversation.
How to know if a girl loves you if there are too many doubts? Disappear for a while - a business trip, a trip to your parents or a sudden vacation will provide time, and after a short separation, everything will fall into place.
At the initial stage of a relationship, the issue of signs of falling in love becomes especially relevant. Especially when it comes to girls. After all, it is especially difficult to understand the mood of an unfamiliar person. And the girls are still those coquettes. And to recognize the attitude of each particular of the fair sex, at first glance, not every guy or man succeeds. In this article, we have collected a set of signs, on the basis of which we can conclude that a girl is in love with you.
long look
Everything that arouses interest in a person also attracts his eye. If a girl keeps her eyes on you for too long, then we can definitely talk about her some interest. Although it's too early to talk about falling in love here. In order to verify the veracity of this conclusion, just follow yourself. And here you will definitely notice that when the object of adoration enters your field of vision, your gaze immediately focuses on this person. So this item is true not only for girls. This hypothesis applies equally to men.
preening
This sign of a girl's falling in love dates back to ancient times. And it is due to banal instincts. A lot of people have watched wildlife shows. And even without all these programs, it is clear that a girl in love begins to attract the attention of a guy she likes. And how can this be done so that it does not look too obvious and intrusive? Correction of curls of hair, blouse collar, coloring of lips in the presence of a man. Here, even the demonstrative narcissism of the girl in the mirror can speak of falling in love. And it depends on whether the girl wants others to know about her interest.
Eagerness for meetings and communication
A girl in love will definitely look for the opportunity to meet and communicate with the guy she likes. And absolutely any reason can be used for this. From a joint holiday with a big company to a chance meeting on the street. And such a meeting may not be accidental at all. It should also be remembered that a girl in love is shy and lost in words when communicating. If you notice a similar reaction of your interlocutor, then it is very likely that she is in love with you.
Care
Men are used to the fact that they should take care of the girls. Indeed, a man in love tends to take care of his beloved. But this thesis is equally true in the case of girls. A girl in love takes care of her lover. And this concern is manifested in completely imperceptible at first glance trifles. This trait is determined by the maternal instinct that the girl projects onto her lover. Even if it's on a subconscious level.
Excessive joy
If a girl begins to laugh out loud and shine with happiness at the sight of you, then this is a clear sign of her falling in love. Let there be such a manifestation of it not so often. But this is a sign of truly sincere sympathy and love. This should also include a violent reaction to a mediocre anecdote.
Access to personal space
Anyone with even the slightest interest in psychology has heard of the concept of personal space. This is the distance at which a person does not allow anyone other than people close to him. So, if a girl is calm about accidental touches, rapprochements and other similar things, then you can do about the fact that she also classifies you as close people.
Access to personal belongings
Again, this is the line beyond which the girl will let not everyone go. The most striking example of this is the mobile phone. If a girl calmly hands it over to you, then she completely trusts you. And trust relatives and loved ones. Well, beyond reality, access to a page on a social network. If a girl has given you such access, then she is not only in love with you, but is also ready to go to Siberia. Joke.
Easy flirting
This will not surprise anyone, but it is still necessary to remember such a sign as flirting. Flirting can be of completely different quality. From innocent to even arrogant. It all depends on the girl herself. But in the context of this article, we discard the second option. It is worth concentrating on light and innocent flirting, from which love relationships begin. Here is another sign that the girl has fallen in love with you.
increased attention
A girl in love will always show increased attention to you. And this concept is slightly different from a similar case with men. If a man demonstrates his attention through actions, then the girl pays increased attention to the words of a man. No wonder they say that women love with their ears. That is why the girl hears absolutely all the comments of her beloved man regarding appearance and behavior. If a girl began to rapidly change for the better for you, then this may not be accidental. Remember if you advised her to let go long hair Or wear those cute earrings.
External changes
This point follows smoothly from the previous one. A girl in love gradually tries out the tastes of her lover and becomes more and more like his ideal. Pay attention, because it was because of you that the girl could make a different hairstyle, change the style of clothing, and generally change her interests and social circle. Here we are talking not only about falling in love. Now it's time to talk about true love. And these girls should not be scattered!
So we have analyzed the main signs by which you can determine that a girl is in love with you. Of course, each specific case is individual. But it is on the basis of these tips that you can maximize short time understand if a girl is in love with you?
In this article, you will see the most obvious signs of a girl falling in love. And some tips on how to make her fall in love with you.
A man in love looks at the world through the prism of beautiful pink glasses and cannot always adequately assess the feelings of his chosen one. In addition, ignorance of female psychology can completely confuse a guy and he will not realistically assess his capabilities for reciprocal feelings. However, everything is not so difficult, it is enough to be attentive to the girl and her manners. Look and behavior have time to read all her feelings.
How to determine: is a girl, a woman in love with you?
- A girl or woman who has feelings for a young man or man will be very talkative when meeting, thereby hiding her nervousness and embarrassment. Her mind will be overwhelmed with thoughts about her chosen one and with her friends she will always translate all topics to her beloved young man, man.
- And if there are still doubts about her feelings, you should carefully ask your common or not very close friends and acquaintances. They certainly could see her obsessive desire to talk about her boyfriend, a man.
- In a conversation with a loved one, she will definitely show attention and goodwill, carefully peering into her eyes.
How to find out if a girl, a woman by correspondence, is in love with you?
If you have been communicating with a girl or woman at a distance for a long time and want to know if she already has real feelings for you, then just ask her a question about the events that you discussed a couple of weeks ago.
If she answers everything exactly, then she loves. Only events and memories associated with a loved one, a girl or woman keeps with special care.
How to know if a girl, a woman is in love with you: sure signs of falling in love, sympathy
Sure signs of a girl falling in love with you:
- Her praise of your address and attention to deeds
- She bypasses all intimate topics and is embarrassed in your presence.
- Always laughing at your jokes. Even if not very funny
- Gets very upset when you praise or just talk about other girls
- Ready to chat with you all day and does not want to leave
- Gets inspired when discussing romantic topics
- Trusts you in everything and believes the word
How does a girl in love, a woman look?
At the very first stages of the emergence of feelings, when there is no way to touch, hug, or even just say out loud about brewing feelings, a girl or woman simply screams with her eyes about her love.
- Her gaze will be luminous and tender, and from its depth one can already understand a lot about her feelings.
- If a girl or woman holds her gaze for more than 5 seconds, then she is in love.
- The pupils are dilated - this is also a sure sign of love.
- The look that follows every movement, when you just can’t escape from it, just belongs to a girl in love, a woman.
Signs of a girl falling in love, a woman in behavior, appearance
- A girl in love, a woman changes and tries to look much better, appears new hairstyle and makeup, new outfits or jewelry.
- She rejoices at any trifles and her previous problems no longer bother her so much.
- May lose appetite slightly or lose weight.
- It speaks of readiness for the most desperate deeds - from parachuting to walking on rooftops.
- He tries to touch you as often as possible - by accident or on purpose, causing non-verbal interest in himself.
- May get flustered, embarrassed, or blush in your presence.
- Repeats involuntarily your gestures and facial expressions, sometimes even remembers the words that you speak.
- He openly flirts with you and at the same time slightly touches his hair.
Can a girl or woman in love ignore the object of her love?
Some girls, women, whose psyche is not yet fully formed, can hide their love under the guise of indifference. This happens only because they still do not know how to express their feelings or are simply afraid to show them, so as not to get pain from unrequited love.
Is it possible to fall in love with a girl, a woman on purpose?
Of course, you can't force anyone to love you. But to make every effort to win the girl or woman you like for a guy or a man is truly noble and can turn into success.
What needs to be done for this?
- Of course give her flowers regularly. It is better to find out which ones she likes so as not to get into a mess. And it is better to diversify the bouquets every time. let it be daisies, and tulips and chrysanthemums. So you will be unpredictable and will be able to surprise.
- spend more time with her and try to find out all her hobbies. Rollerblading, cycling, or walking hand in hand through the streets of a deserted city - quality time together is no substitute for any expensive gift.
- Read more, watch new movies so you have something to talk about. Girls and women love smart guys and men and are always imbued with deep conversations. Yes, and every woman dreams of spending her life with an intelligent man, developed in all areas.
- Introduce her to your friends. This will increase her confidence in you and she will understand that you have serious intentions. Tell them how wonderful she is and that you are serious. Otherwise, they may perceive her as another friend of yours and she will be disappointed.
- Don't forget to congratulate her and her friends with their holidays, let all birthdays be remembered with special surprises. especially she will remember not banal gifts, but originally thought out ones. for example, a quest with a search for a gift and clues along the way.
- And of course the poetry. If you can't write yourself, find a nice verse and write it on beautiful postcard or send it to her via sms. good night wishes and good morning in small quatrains will be remembered by her and she will be imbued with your romanticism.
How to check if a girl, a woman is in love with you: reviews and tips
- Always pay attention to her reaction to your jokes. Girls in love always laugh at anything.
- Offer her an unusual act for her - for example, take a walk around the city until morning. If she reacts indifferently, then there are no feelings. The lover will be happy and will definitely agree.
- Listen to her way of communicating with you. If she talks calmly with others, but gets a little lost and embarrassed with you, then you are in her heart.
- If she flirts and takes very seductive poses, repeats your movements and phrases, then you are not indifferent to her.
Every girl and woman dreams of love and a worthy chosen one. Do not be tormented by doubts, do great deeds, conquer it and be happy!
Anton, 18 years old.
I was always embarrassed and did not understand how to find out if my girlfriend has real feelings for me. And after checking all the ways, I realized that she was really in love. I managed to overcome my fear and confess my feelings to her.
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